help!!!! (locker room)

[blingibong]

right... i havnt had this problem at all before but now i can't look at someones dick and i get a boner... in the locker room and u have to shower and its a must i have no idea how to hide it or get rid of it i need help i have swimming next and don't want a boner in that to when im in speedos :S help pls thanks :what: any adivce would do thank you!!!

[IowaBoy]

it is normal, you are just curious. only way to avoid it is just try to get out as quick as you can and get out.

[blingibong]

cant i have to shower and there are no cubicals jst rows of showers !!!

[Fusion]

There will be other guys in your shoes don't think you are a lone

If you feel you are going to get an erection think of Margaret Thatcher on a cold day

http://www.morethings.com/images/margaret_thatcher/margaret-thatcher-5000.jpg
That is here :)

[coolguy12]

well you probably like guys but theres nothin rong with that
why dont you think off something really weird like err imagine george bush naked lol xD
good luck

[Skeletal-Chic]

Is there anyway for you to wear something other than speedos? that might work

[blingibong]

nope school regulations

[OstrichAficionado]

I have experienced this, it's really hard to control yourself :/

Keep your mind busy, and be quick!

[blingibong]

but i use to stay behind for all my m8s (not bragin or showing off) im popualr and they all hang round me... and if i do that they will think somethigns up!! anyother advice

[MisterAndrews]

it's one of lifes challenges. You're going to have to take some of the advice given and not just put more obstacles in the way. Go in there, look straight at your own shower head, don't look at your dick or anyone elses, act completely normally and if you STILL start to get a semi - walk out calmly and put a towel round yourself to go get dry.

[blingibong]

lol my dick gets soft 2 hard in matter of seconds i dont think it eva heard of a part called semi!!

[marty]

Here is what helps me: set up a complicated math problem in your head and try to solve it. It takes a lot of your focus to work on the math, and it will take any thought off of erections, which will surely keep you from getting hard.

[Ballin2much]

you dont need to be curiious or gay or anyting for that to happen. it might just be because your hanging out in the open if ya know what i mean, i think you do

[mrcoffeshop]

or maybe just saying be4 u go in just sayin that u'll prob get a bonner casue addmiting it be4 ppl see it could be goood or just try to wait 4 the last one... and turn ur heard away

[KaelKaos]

Keep your mind occupied. Just go in there, do your thing, don't worry, and get out. You should be fine.

[Smiler]

I sometimes get this problem. If you can, go to the toilet and have a wank before you have a shower. this shoould get rid of any sexual urges and make it harder to get a boner.

[Giles]

Ok, in most schools you don't HAVE to shower. You might feel you have to because of peer pressure, but you probably don't.

You might be able to wear swim shorts.. If not, wear more than one speedo, to hide the boner if it appears.

[BigBulge]

Jack off first thing in the morning to reducde horniness.

Keep your eyes focused on one point, such as a tile DO NOT LAY EYES ON YOUR M8s

(assuming there are crappers in your swimming changing rooms) if you feel a chubb coming on, tell ur m8s u need a piss and get out of there.

[cherry_boi]

unfortunately wearing tigh clothing tend to cause boners so speeds do not help in this case, umm my advice to u is to put ur mind somewhere else, think about something not related to changing or sex or gym class, just stare at the floor and keep thinking about something else, sing ur favorite song and just focus on showering and stare at ur feet :P

[Shadowhunter]

man, i have swim practice everyday but here in nb its not necessary to shower but when i do after practice i just leave my jammers on as for the boner thing dunno i am pretty sure other people will be having the same probley just dont think about it or else it will be worst

[Art_dude]

Marty's advice is great: and is backed by science! If you try solving a complex math problem the brain needs extra blood to supply it with the energy/mental power to solve it. The erect penis is taking unnecessary blood from the brain so the erection subsides. That along with thinking of something random and ugly is a fool proof trick. Also try to go in and out as quickly as possible. And if all else fails - who cares? Act like it's no big deal and others won't either. In fact others might even get hard knowing it's not taboo.

[Giles]

Marty's advice is great: and is backed by science! If you try solving a complex math problem the brain needs extra blood to supply it with the energy/mental power to solve it. The erect penis is taking unnecessary blood from the brain so the erection subsides. That along with thinking of something random and ugly is a fool proof trick. Also try to go in and out as quickly as possible. And if all else fails - who cares? Act like it's no big deal and others won't either. In fact others might even get hard knowing it's not taboo.

That's what everyone else has tried to say, but using bigger words and what sounds like actual science.

[blingibong]

not working just tired !! lmaoo

[Erick]

Oh please, just have a masturbation session before the swimming class and for the critic minutes you would not have an erection problem. The other way is to just get into the water.

[cooldude2009]

To avoid an erection think of something that's a turn off like, body hair on a girl, a mustache on a girl... Etc....

[mattvt94]

I know exactly how you feel just think of something that really turns you off I not tryin to be mean but for me it is a really fat girl with just rolls of fat I just imagine her naked and it slowly goes away but don't start thinking bout I wonder if it is gone cause it will bring your bonner right back and if you are straight don't think of your gf or a girl you gotta thing for

[Target2222]

Een If you get a bonnet just keep moving and know one will see or show everybody and let then see it's the better way to go

[Ukix]

Jack off in the morning first (cum more than 1 time if u can), and just dont think on it. If u get boner make jokes with it. XD

Ps. Use cold wather.

[SomeRandomDude]

I'm getting a boner just reading this lol. It's normal to get a boner when you read, see or think about anything sexual and theres nothing you can do about it. You may try closing your eyes or just looking away during showering or, as most people on here are saying, shower quickly and get out. If you do get a boner, try to think of other things and it should go away quicker. Don't think of any that is related to sexuality

Hope this helps :)

[alexpop]

shit nobody is going to say anything. i remeber this kid in PE he had boners all the time i used to get some 2 and then other use 2 gte them too and nobody cared at all. or just rap ur self in a towel go outside tug in ur dick

[Ender]

well you probably like guys but theres nothin rong with that


This is not necessarily true. Just because he gets aroused by the sight of a penis doesnt automaticslly qualify him as homosexual. There are MANY emotional/physical levels to it.

@OP Just try to keep your eyes up, focus on getting in, showering, and leaving. While showering, think of something boring like homework, etc.

Hope I helped. :)

[Disconected]

tht used to happen to me too when i was younger. the first thing u do is shower in really cold water. then when u talk to ppl make eye contact. look really closely at their eyebrows and try to count them. also jack off in the morning or before practice if u can to lower ur hormone level. thirdly try to be naked more so u r comfortable with just simply being nude

[Ballsofury]

jerk off in the bathroom before it or before school.

[crazycoller]

quickly switch your shower to cold- works every time

[melara]

Well as a fellow swimmer and water polo player I know what it's like to get an erection in a speedo very embarassing. Don't worry bout showerIng mate lots of guys will have the same problem you have and once you start doin it it will become routine/ second nature and it'll be like nothing just the norm good luck mate!

[Harley Quinn]

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