Problems Mentally

[unidanman]

Hi
I was an outcast as a kid, still am.
Have like 1 or 2 friends... but they still have their main groups they go 2...
Earlier this year i dressed up as santa for a house event and, well generally some of the year 7s and 8s, (Im year 12 -13 nxt year) followed me around and started hanging around me. and eventually i started hanging around with them cos i ad noone else to hang around with. During that time i developed a crush on one of the year 8 girls... I knew it was completely inappropriate and unquestionable. Didn't say anything and stopped hanging around them.
However i don't feel i could let this go.

I think this is because i was a weird f$#k as a kid and never got close to anyone, even as a friend.

Advice???

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Boys' Puberty :arrow: Family & Friends

[Lord C]

Well, like you said, the idea that you are friends with considerably younger people may be because you perhaps missed out on that stage of group friendship when you were that age and you like the idea of it, which, of course, is perfectly acceptable. But if you have developed a liking for a girl 4 years younger than you then you might have to consider your position. I can take by the tone of your message that you feel that this is a situation that you are trying to fight, and not like this girl, because you feel it's inappropriate. So, my advice is, if you enjoy hanging round with these people then keep doing it, don't act on your feelings for the younger girl, but also find friends your own age as well. You mentioned that your two friends have groups of their own. Tag along, it's surprisingly easy to get into a group of friends if you play your cards right :) Good luck.

[Ballin2much]

wait ur 12, i thought u had to be 13 to register here, what ever lol.

just start looking at other girls ur age, and maybe itll work

[ThatDude93]

wait ur 12, i thought u had to be 13 to register here, what ever lol.

just start looking at other girls ur age, and maybe itll work

lol he said year 12...that is like grade 12 here....well actually I think it is Grade 11 here

[Ballin2much]

r you in britan? we just go by 12th grade here lol, i was kind of in a hurry. epic fail

[unidanman]

start school at 5 years old. go to year 13 which is usually 17 or 18.
Nah New Zealand. We used to be part of britian but we said nahh 4get that lets become our own nation

[FredJimmy]

I'm coming! Let's see what happens