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sarah newman
December 22nd, 2009, 02:32 AM
Okay, so this all started when i was 11 years old. I went to a park with 3 other friends, we had a fun time, playing it and mucking around on the swings. Then my 3 friends went home for dinner and this other girl came up to me, we only met then for the first time. she seemed quite nice a girl.
BUT, she was 1 year older then me. So we were talking on the swings when this teenage group came up to us, talking to me all the time. they were girls, and they were saying things like these boys think your really attractive and to meet up with them sometime. I agreed with them. I lyed to my parents saying i was meeting the 3 friends and instead went to see these teenage girls and boys. Then in the park one day this boy sat on my lap and said 'hey babe' to me, i just said get off. But the worse thing was this happened at the end of year 6 and i was moving to secondary school-there secondary school. These teenagers are 2-3 years older then me. But, then i got one of the boys numbers. and me and the group saw alot of eachover. But then the boys were starting to touch me and they were all making me do things i didnt want to do. Rhey even mentioned shoplifting-i didnt though
This girl i mentioned at first didnt really look out for me, as i was the youngest i was the one who got advantage taken out of and was laughed at. This girl also smoked. This lead me to self harm to, well, i still do it, i've got to the point where i cut anywhere and burn on my arms.
One of my good friends all put a stop to this in the middle of year 7 when i was 12, one of my good friends reported it to a member of staff who sorted it. Ever since, the group just look at me or smile or just say hi in a sarcastic way. i was a fool to wanted to make up being friends with them.
So one question, could this of lead to abuse or was it abuse? :confused:

bacafe
December 22nd, 2009, 05:10 AM
It seems to me, that what you describe is abuse, but that is just my theory

sarah newman
December 22nd, 2009, 06:45 AM
what do you mean?

laurita_21
December 22nd, 2009, 06:52 AM
From a part of the story, it was sexual harasment and i think it was abuse, more like bullyng. so yes i think it was abuse?

sarah newman
December 23rd, 2009, 09:11 AM
I also got dirty text day in day out. Please reply and help me understand someone xxx

laurita_21
December 23rd, 2009, 09:13 AM
is it still happening ?
you should tell some one. because i think it is abuse.

sarah newman
December 23rd, 2009, 10:48 AM
happened 1-2 years today, thats why im asking
i will tell someone, im cutting and burninga and smoking coz of this and something else x

sarah newman
December 23rd, 2009, 05:58 PM
Please understand me someone, i need to no this