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cloudybliss
December 22nd, 2009, 01:36 AM
start conversations with me on msn...but then starts replying really slowly or with boring answers?
He much always initiates the conversation (although sometimes it takes a while)...but then he just let's it die.
Does this just mean he's not into it/me?
BlackBetty
December 22nd, 2009, 10:29 AM
I know exactly what you are saying.. I don't even care for him, but I will talk to him to be nice. He always starts as soon as I log into AOL and carrys on the most boringest conversation... All I hear is "same" "same" "lol"... It gets on my fucking nerves!
laurita_21
December 22nd, 2009, 10:37 AM
YEAHH! that happens to me ! the guy i like starts a conversation and basicly he just says "hi" and then i say " then after that he just dosn't say anything else or he just goes off line.... im just like .. -_- erm okaay ?
its so sad :( i really like him aswell XD
Ripplemagne
December 22nd, 2009, 10:53 AM
Well, shit! I'm not available at your beck and call! Sometimes, it takes me some time to respond! Sometimes, the Ripplemagne is crankin' one out to some obbyies on google! Other times, he is gawking at his magnificent visage in the reflection of perfection in his sexy mirror-enclosed room. Saaaaaaaaawreeeeeee if the Ripplemagne is not on 24/7 speed dial for some cyber obbyies! Gawsh!
...Oh. Sorry. Yeah... not always being at the computer and being busy and whatnot...
That.
Kale
December 22nd, 2009, 11:34 AM
ever heard of the book "she's just not that in to you?" yeah, he's just not that in to you.
Sage
December 22nd, 2009, 02:44 PM
Or maybe he's just boring and sucks at talking to women.
OrionX
December 22nd, 2009, 11:44 PM
Just try and keep him engaged. Don't give him an opportunity to opt out of questions n stuff. If he still doesn't converse then maybe you just shouldn't expect too much of him. (:
cherry_boi
December 23rd, 2009, 01:00 AM
alot of people lack social skills...especially though online conversations, it may not be that he's bored, just that he is not apt at carrying on a convo....
OstrichAficionado
December 23rd, 2009, 06:22 AM
yeahhh...false hope sucks
Art_dude
December 23rd, 2009, 09:51 PM
If he is initiating the conversations (if you can even call them that) then he is mot likely interested in you and wants to have an engaging talk but he's lacking the social skills. OR he is nervous and thinks that giving one-worded-responses means less potential mistakes to make in front of you! I know it's a pain in the ass but at least be flattered that he likes you :) I had the same thing happen a while back and it got to be a real pain. I found that by asking HER questions and asking for elaborate details that the conversation eventually opened up and became more interesting. Give it a shot. He might just open up and wow you.
uihwljtkegr
December 24th, 2009, 06:35 PM
Well I myself am guilty of doing this, purely because I can't think of anything to say! I'll start talking to someone, and then think "right, what the hell else can I say now? So it could just be that.
The Joker
December 24th, 2009, 08:24 PM
Since when does online MSN chat say anything about interest in wimmenz?
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