Confused about friend

[sam i am]

well i have this friend his name is Dorian and like we known each other for like a yr..and i just don't understand him like he knows im bisexual.He's like so sweet to me and calling me his son and i call him my pops lol (he's 16),and i ask y out of all people am i his son because "im cool". Like we talk about everything sex,his gf,his D*** and mine lol. and im just keep getting mixed signs from him like idk if he is bi or gay like i asked in the beginning and he said he's straight. However, the way he treats me is just amazing. I just don't know if he's like gay or bi. He tells me about his wet dreams and such like were so close,but Im confused. Do u think he's bi or gay?:yeah:

[nick]

why dont you just ask him?

[XxHaViiK]

Well, back when I thought I was straight, I treated all of my bi/gay friends really well because I didn't want them to feel excluded. He could be bi/gay, or he could be a really good friend.

[laurita_21]

well just ask him. You said that you guys talk about sex and stuff, so if you guys are talkiing about it just bring it up.

[AlwaysConfused]

the same thing happens with me. my friend johnny is all about touching ppl. but im getting the feeling that he is bi and i dnt wanna say anything but i have the urge to when he touches me. Plus the fact that idk wat my sexuality is makes it even more confusing.

[sam i am]

Well i kinda played a joke on him saying i liked him and took it back and we laughed about it so ik he don't feel the same =( hes straight ughh !!!!!!

[OrionX]

If he's such a good friend maybe you could ask him with out any side effects, exept the awkwardness for a while... also take into account that he has a girlfriend... (:

[sam i am]

This what happen last night: Dorian: srryyy waz on dee fone wit my mother Me:yea yea smh bad father ignoring his own son Dorian:lol i ignore many ov ma children Me:lord have mercy than give me up Dorian:nahh cnt do tht Me:why not? Dorian:cuz ur ma favorite one no homo Me:o ok Dorian:iighht Me:y am i ya favorite one ? Dorian:cuz...i sed soo Me:lol thxs that means alot ..ur my favorite one to Dorian: cooool Me:lol awkward Dorian:yea it iz Me:well let's make it un awkward lol..(later on).. Me:u not j/k thats odee ni**a Dorian...i waz playinnnnnn Me:LIAR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dorian:lmao lmaoooo Dorian:i'm srry tht remined me ov ma gf wen she does tht i b rolling Me:lol.......see i don't get it he's just too weird and he compares me to his gf like im just like her >.< ughh i asked again if hes straight and he is but i don't believe it ...I'm falling in love with him =/ ..sh**

[Billy15]

maybe he is gay or bi and maybe he even likes you to but is afraid if he does something that it might hurt your friendship or the respect thing that you guys have 4 each other idk maybe also he might be afraid if he admits it that it will get out and he doesnt want to take that chance. i can 4 real relate to that last part.

[sam i am]

yea i guess he don't wanna admit it idk but i wish i really knew whats going on between us

[Oren]

Best thing is to ask, if he is a good friend he would understand why you want to know.

[Angster]

My friends and I always talk about our genitals, it's just a teen thing to discuss and such. Doesn't mean we're all gay, could be, never know. Anyways, it's normal. You might be overreacting, or he might like you. Just wait it out, but if he has a gf, you shouldn't be pursuing it anyways.

[Fruit_Tart.]

ha ha. i have the same problem too. hes been my friend for a long time now. n he gives me mixed moods too. he tells me that hes straight but he acts all sweet with me. and he like rubs my leg...?? idk hes jus a messed up boy. lol. :D

[sam i am]

lol thxs guys i told him how i feel last night .He said he's flattered but he's straight.And im still his son. ugh and i told him i can't stand it i have to go and i signed off and when i came back online he said hey son what took u so long..and act more sweet with me. and he said this thing (can't say it ) just to cheer me up because he know i will laugh. i can't get rid of these feelings if i don't,im going to get more hurt ugh :(

[Starlight Blaze]

i like a straight guy too... but mine doesnt put up signs
well i just try to deal with it...
its really hard i know...
my crush has started to grow closer to me
maybe urs will, or maybe he wont...
just let it unroll and see what happens

[Leprachaun]

theres a chance but he could just be a really good friend, like one in a million.

[sam i am]

Well i guess i have to wait u right i can't do anything. Plus i don't wanna mess up their relationship for my needs...but if he is a one in a million good friend than im lucky to have him