what do i do?

[george17]

hi...erm...me and my boyfriend are very close, i always thought he was faithful until i discovered some emails to other guys that were...suggestive. this isn't the first time hes done things like this. what do i do? i love him so much but don't think i can carry on like this for much longer... someone please help

[cherry_boi]

u shud talk to him about the e-mails, i'm not sure how u came across them, if u were snooping then that's kind of ur bad so be prepared to take some heat for that, but regardless u shud bring it up, and if he's not being faithful to you (having those kinds of conversations with someone else is not being faithful) then you need to find out why, and be clear with him that it's not ok, and if he wants to be with you he has to stay loyal and can't be taking advantage of your trust.

[george17]

thanks, he knows i go onto his hotmail but they were in his sent messages and i dont think he knows how to delete them...
the thing i dont get is that he says he loves me non stop. he writes letters, draws pictures of me... but why would he send emails to other guys? :/
thanks

[cherry_boi]

ur welcome

idk that's something u should ask him, and don't let him hget away wit ha vague answer, ensure that he is communicating with you

him telling u what you want to hear, or not giving u any information at all is the worst thing for ur relationship.

be open minded tho, but don't allow urself ot be treated like a doormat

[AddiEast]

I wonder what suggestive means?
Is it just flirting? Cuz I dont think thats a big deal. Sometimes insecure people get all bent out of shape by flirting but Im not saying thats YOU
I dont think flirting is cheating.
He knows you look at his email account so why would the messages be there?
To me it means he WANTS you to find them
or he doesnt think its a big deal and doesnt care if u see them

You say he doesnt know how to delete them but even if thats true he still knows that you WILL read them right??
Something is weird about this...

[Shum]

hey sorry to 'snoop' around.
im eddys boyfrined here, and its totally misunderstood. i know how to delete emails, i didnt delete it coz there was no need to. the email wasnt suggestive at all. the guy i emailed was freaking me out sending ME suggestive emails. turns out he used to go to my skl. i sent him one to let him know i knew what was going on and that it was him, coz he always blocked his email address so that i cudnt reply back, except one time when he must have forgotten. after i sent the email about 2 weeks ago, hes stopped talking to me, which i wanted. :)
eddys misunderstood this. there was no suggestiveness meant. i promise. i love eddy to the depths of my heart, and there is no way i would ever cheat on him. i love him soo sooo much. x

[george17]

sam, the email was hardly asking what he was doing. and why would a 30 year old go to your school??
in the email you said you had a look at his profile.

[2D]

You guys need to learn to trust each other.

[Shum]

no i sent him an email to scare him off. and it worked didnt it??? hes stopped emailing and thats good :) i would never want to hurt you eddy x i promise.
the fact the he is or may be 30 is exremely scary coz he said he was 17 and that he used to go to my skl and he named half the teachers and the classes they teach and everything.
anyway, i would never want to hit on a 30 year old man. :/ seriously. yuk.
i love eddy. i would never cheat or lie to him about sumthing like that. i swear x