I need to be told myself

[Silent]

Well im normally the one talking to people about it and giving the input/advise but it seems to help me when I hear it from someone else as well.



Alright to start offf im not really sure of my sexuality. I claim to be straight but I end up bouncing between that bi-sexual or undecided. Now here is the thing I love girls. I will do anything with a girl, I will marry one. Now with guys I will do pretty much anything but...I dont want a relationship with one as in the going out way/marriage way. I seem to get a little more excited about sexual things about guys than I do with girls. Like I said I like girls but its just harder for me to get excited "if you will" unlike with guys. Whenever there is talk about certain guys or doing things with them I get excited easier but with girls not as easy. Maybe its cause im still a virgin and I have only kissed a girl compared to doing a few things with guys. But im not sure what do you think.

Stressed friend
Silent

[MusicallyObsessedBoi]

You are only sexually attracted to men. So you're most likely bi, but prefer girls.

[Silent]

Thats what my friend said but dont you have to be emotionally and physically atrracted to the same sex to be bi.

[dantay]

I consider myself straight simply because I'm not emotionally attracted to a guy, I simply see no difference between a penis and a vagina. While I'd "do it" with a guy, I wouldn't marry him. I don't have the capacity to love a man in the way I love a woman. :)

[TheTruth]

Ye, i would say your just curious, I'm thinking i'm bi but i'm more emotionally attracted to girs than guys and would only do sexual things with guys. Nothing more relationship wise. So right now i think also curious myself.

[The Joker]

You're what we call a hetero-flexible!

To be bi, you would have to be interested in a relationship with a man or a woman. You aren't interested in a relationship with a man, but you are for a woman.

You're just interested in the physical aspect of a guy. But still, just give yourself a few years. Soon, you may not even be sexually interested in a guy, or you might find yourself interested in a relationship with a guy.

[OrionX]

Your physically attracted to men... but girls are your thing... maybe your just curious...

[nick]

Or then again, could there be a possibility that you are gay or bi but in denial about it because it wouldnt be your lifestyle choice? You make it sound as if you would be willing to have sex with a girl but the thought doesnt really turn you on. That would be a bit odd for a straight guy. Have you ever had a gf, is there some girl you could ask out? It seems to me that a little experimentation on the straight side might help answer some questions for you.

[luciia96]

you can like girls but feel sexually attracted to boys, But you can't ask that in a forum, you must find out yourself

[Silent]

Well in some cases haven sex with a girl turns me on...

[Nelson]

Mate im the same way, ive told a small few that i like both guys and chicks, but i would never have a relationship (kissing, going out ect) with a guy, they "sexually" appeal to me

[KaelKaos]

you can like girls but feel sexually attracted to boys, But you can't ask that in a forum, you must find out yourself

She's right.

And also, why do you feel the need to classify yourself as gay, straight, bi..etc? You'll know what you are when the time comes, but until then, you should stop worrying and just go with the flow, and do what feels comfortable.

[Silent]

So, when some one just asks then i just say whatever?

[KaelKaos]

So, when some one just asks then i just say whatever?

Or unsure. Because that's what it seems like you are.

[Silent]

ya but if I say that then I get labeled you know.

[KaelKaos]

ya but if I say that then I get labeled you know.

And you don't get labeled for saying you're bi?

[Silent]

True....Ok when people do ask i say straight but it makes me think everytime you know.

[The Joker]

If you would rather not have them know, then tell them straight.

If you want them to know, tell them you're not sure, and maybe ask to talk with them about it.