Should i Do it ?

[booo]

Well, let me explain. theres this girl ash, and we dated before but i broke up with her because of a stupid reason, we moved on. its been about a year. and im dating someone and shes not. but we still have a good relationship. We are currently "Bffs" but we get touchy, and talk dirty. We get mistaken to be a couple all the time. I.. like her. I'm not really sure she likes me? But today we hung out with out bff #2, and she didnt request me to invite her. She seems to like the Alone time with me. i usually put my arm around her when i walk. we both play piano and its quite funny that we say things (sometimes the same things) at the same time. Like today we both started to read a billboard at the same time. <-- Could that be a sign? Lol even her sister knows i have a crush on her. She said "Why dont you just ask her" Im quite scared because if i tell her i like her and she dosent.. it can potentially ruin the RelationShip we have now.. and i guess life with out her would be boring. Our teachers think we're dating so they sat us next to each other, we cheat off each other , we share drinks, food. We also sit next to each other at lunch.. Shes become part of my daily life. We talk evrey night on aim and i think if that wasent there i'd lose a piece of my daily sunshine <33

[Alfred Pennyworth]

If you think so, go for it man! To me at least, it sounds like she would stay being your friend even if she did turn you down. Kinda the same thing happened with my best friend, she said no, and life returned to normal. It sounds like you two are so close, that you wouldn't let anything separate your friendship. If you two were in a relationship before, i would think that she would be more than willing to be in a relationship with you again.

[booo]

If you think so, go for it man! To me at least, it sounds like she would stay being your friend even if she did turn you down. Kinda the same thing happened with my best friend, she said no, and life returned to normal. It sounds like you two are so close, that you wouldn't let anything separate your friendship. If you two were in a relationship before, i would think that she would be more than willing to be in a relationship with you again.

eh, its going to be hard to tell her how i feel? how should i tell her?

[2D]

Just say it. Be honest and straightforward.

[Art_dude]

Agreed. GO FOR IT. I realize you guys broke up, but you were younger and like you said it was for a stupid reason. Couples make mistakes all the time. Your friendship is still there (always a good sign) and she likes the intimate 'alone' time with you. And I'm thinking the 'fooling around, and 'dirty talk' are signs she's wanting back in.

I think something along these lines might do the trick..."hey, Do you remember when we first dated? I was thinking the other day about how those were some of the best times I've ever had with you, and then I asked myself how that even ended? I think we both know that we were young and didn't know much about relationships, but now that we've been apart for a year, and we've both grown and matured, I realize what I want now, and what I want is you."

[TheTruth]

Okay, that happened to me sort of and i went for it and it worked out great but just incase she doesn't feel the same way i wouldn't come out and just say I love you. Try to use words which indicate you love her but not for definite like i T H I N K ive got feelings for you again, or i M I G H T be in love with you then find out what she thinks about you and go from there. If it turns out she doesnt feel the same you can always say that your feelings towards her are a little confused and you might just love her as a friend :) BUT HELL I HOPE IT WORKS FOR YA :D

[dantay]

Not trying to knock TheTruth's comment but please don't say LOVE! At all...you should only ever have a couple of loves and it should take a long time of being together to finally be able to say I love you. I have been with a few girls over the years but I have never said I love you, I "love" my friends more than anyone I've ever dated!

[OrionX]

To me it sounds like a perfect couple. if you do all those things together there must be some sort of special bond. If i was you i would ask her. From personal experience it won't ruin the relationship (: If she says no then continue being friends and forget it ever happened. (:

[Jordee-G]

Sounds like a really strong friendship to me, dating could ruin it.

[AddiEast]

Sounds like a really strong friendship to me, dating could ruin it.

YEP
what I was gonna say
sounds like u have an awesome best friend
why risk ruining that??
boyfriends and girlfriends come and go but friends are forever
You already tried the bf gf thing and it didnt work
The friendship IS working
Leave it alone

[booo]

ah! well im probably going to hang out with her tomorrow and im gonna get a bit touchy-ur and see how that goes if she dosent mind i'll tell her if not i'll back off. Our plans are like this i said well where haning with bff # 2 and you on wed. She asked what im doing tommarow/today (22/12/09) and i said nothing and i continued with saying "do you wanna hang out just me and you?" shes like Yeah! so :P :wub: Oh the butterflies <3

oh and thank you all for the answers ill keep you posted!

[booo]

It didn't work out. D: