What do I do?

[dangrusrdkl]

I'm 17 and I'm Bi but I honestly don't want to be. There's a Chic I like A LOT! and there's a guy I like A LOT I want to be "normal" but I can't. I just want to know if I should go with my feeling or who ever gives off the first hint. I just don't know what to do.... Can anyone help?

[enzenzz]

If you dont want to be bi then go for the girl, it might change your preference or it will confirm what you truly are. Either way you'll get an answer.

[Blood]

Spend time with each of the. The one you feel most attracted too, go with.

[dantay]

You first need to discover whether your attracted to either on a sexual level, it's possible that you only feel that, lust and sexual attraction not emotional attraction. I know from experience that while I'm attracted to guys, it's only in a sexual manner, with girls it's more emotional tied. :)

[bmxkidd]

d00d that's a win. Get them both in a 3 way. that'd be xtreme

[Fusion]

Its normal to feel like this during puberty, its because you are curious due to your hormone levels or you are just that way inclined :), if you are just curious I would tell you that it last a few years, your hormone levels won't go down till/ to you are 17-20

To be attracted to the same and opposite sex, you have to be emotionally, mentally and physically attached to them.

You are "normal"

[Ballin2much]

if you dont want to be bi, dont be, its all up to you. Make a discision, and dont go back on it.

[KaelKaos]

if you dont want to be bi, dont be, its all up to you. Make a discision, and dont go back on it.

However, denying who/what you truly are won't help you get any further.

You need to go with your feeling, Nickelback said above, spend time with both and find out who you think you'd be better with.

[Fusion]

if you dont want to be bi, dont be, its all up to you. Make a discision, and dont go back on it.

You can't just change your sexuality with a flick of a finger!

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Giles]

You can't just change your sexuality with a flick of a finger!

You can hide it pretty damn well though.

You need to work out which one you're attracted to on a sexual level, and which on an emotional level.

If they come out in the same person you're either gay, or straight. (Depending)
If they come out in separate people than you're Bi.
If they come out in both of them you're also Bi.
(All of the above are possibilities, not certainties.)

[Billy15]

i dont like to be different and i doubt that anyone else likes to be different but whatever we are, i figure we should be true to ourselves and try to be happy with what we got. i cant tell you what to do because only you know those answers but i think if i were in your position i would go with whichever i felt would make me the happiest and the one that was truest to my heart.

[darkiouz]

Different is a state other than the norm, usually which is created by the media or influential figures. Being different is perfectly acceptable imo but unfortunately the media frown upon this. Its a shame that people feel pressured into being "normal" about their sexuality because that creates no choice. Im pretty sure that that contridicts human rights some where.
Im bi and tbh.. you can have both but you gotta be careful.