Guy I like

[OnceMoreWithFeeling]

I really like this guy that goes to my chruch, I have liked him for many years. He is 9 ounths youger then me and a grade bellow. We are really close friends, how chould I tell him I like him with out reuining our friendship?

[Gumleaf]

well there is always an element of risk when you tell a friend that you like them as more then a friend. there is no right or wrong way to do it, however i think taking the brave direct approach of just telling him how you feel is the best approach. whether it ruins your friendship at all, nobody knows because we can't put ourselves in his place. but if you have liked him for so long then perhaps it is worth the risk of telling him.

[AncientCatastrophe]

If your not really sure of what to do I'd say "investigate" a little and if you notice that he likes you then ask him out like gumleaf said the best approach is tell him how you feel. :violin:

[OnceMoreWithFeeling]

thank you