what should i do..

[Asylum]

i love the guy i'm dating.. but he is vain and selfish (those are his own words not mine) (and I agree). he hangs out with this one girl Alex too much tho. like i don't mind that she drives him... everywhere... or they hang out on the weekends... because i know he is her friend and he doen'st like her that way... but she invited him to prom and he siad yes.. this i do not understand prom is intimate.. its specail.. i'm just very angry with him now.. and idk what to do. no i want to end our relationship.. but i'd never do it before a holiday.. we've been arguing a lot.. and its just like once i get out of today i wnat to break up with you mode... i'll fall back into liking him.. apologize about being angry and forget.. this happenss to me all the time in every relationshp.. and i hate it.. i want out of this hurt cycle. please help

[ChaoticHarmony]

ok i know this is gonna sound really bad but.....
u need to get rid of him. he obviously doesnt like you the way you do him....i mean he is taking another girl to the prom..
i would just get it over with. i know ur gonna be hurting and i know it will suck, but it will save u a lot of heartache in the future, trust me.
fight the temptation to run back to him as it will just start the vicious cycle over again and you'll just end up hurting again......
this is just my opinion, though, and you can do what you please..

pm me if u need any help. im always here :)

[Gumleaf]

well before you think about break ups and stuff, i think the best thing you can do is tell him how you feel. i don't think it is unreasonable for you to do that. he might be friends with alex, but you are his girlfriend, not her. if, after you talk about it he still goes ahead with it and you want to break up with him, then i suggest you find other things in your life to fill the void that he will leave behind, otherwise the temptation to go back to him, the problem you have had before, will still exist. i would think about telling your friends about it if you feel comfortable doing that and they can back you up and be there for you and stop you from giving in to him and going back. hopefully it won't come to that though.