Im in a reallt bad situation

[Moai]

Okay so I'm dating this girl I love very much and she means a ton to me. The only bad thing is is that she doesn't want to kiss me because she wants her first kiss to be with the person she marries. So yeah i'm really confused I feel like she doesn't think we will last long....and I havent had my first kiss either and if I stay with her for awhile like im planning on doing, then ill be made fun of like all my teenage life for not ever kissing a girl....can anybody help i'm really confused. PS I'm 14 and she is 13 and 3/4

[Sage]

Wow. What a cock-block. I can understand no premarital sex, but no premarital kissing? Well, do what you feel is right man. I'll just be upfront with you and say people say, think and do a lot of really crazy, stupid shit when they're hot for somebody.

[ktkurbst0mp]

Okay, first of all you guys are still young. She's only 13. Her views could change soon in the future. Or maybe they will stay the same. But the truth is, if you really care about and love her the physical kissing her shouldn't be that important to you. Maybe she's just nervous and wants to make sure you'll stick around. Either way, you can't force her to kiss you. So stick it out, it might just be worth the wait. :)

[Moai]

yeah thats pretty much what my parents said... thanks for the help!

[ChaoticHarmony]

yea katie is right. if you really do love her and care about her, her kisses shouldnt mean much. just her being in ur arms should be enough for now. she mite change her mind, who knows. besides, if you do wait, imagine how passionate it will be when u two finally do kiss...mite be worth it

[OrionX]

Shes doesn't want to kiss, then she doesn't want to kiss. You've got LOADS of time. Don't stress the issue, it's no big deal really... (: