OMG I'm so confused

[BlackBetty]

Ok my friend's cousin and I text all the time. She is a girl and i'm a guy. She is SO pretty. Me and her pick on each other in a lughing matter. She always remembers what I say and vica versa even if it was months ago that she or me said it. She was talking about this guy one day and I kinda acted hurt about it, and she said are you jealou? I said yes. And then she said she wont talk to him no more. Here is the problem, she lives in WV and I live in NC. Me and her and her cousin is going to the movies when she comes down here over the Christmas break.. I hope me and her can connect as good as I think that we do. We have so much in common it is like she is in my life since I was born. It is so odd and I really like her but IU need to know if the sign that she gives me says that she likes me also. I don't want to look like a fool. She is just so pretty and I can't stand not to think about her all the time. She means everything to me.:what::what:

EDIT: I forgot to say that I have so many pictures that she has sent to me of her. She sent me a picture one night after she got out of the shower and her hair was messy and said she had 'sex hair'.. I just got a message from her and it was a tube that said "goop" and the G was a hand made like a G. She said This don't look right does it?.

[AllThatIsLeft]

There is attraction for sure, what are you scared of? I say go for it.

[BlackBetty]

There is attraction for sure, what are you scared of? I say go for it.

I think there is attractions also. I am just scared to ruin our GREAT friendship. But what if she feels the same about me as I do her?

[Gumleaf]

like paula said, there is obvious attraction there and i would suspect that she likes you back. but if you are so worried about risking the friendship, then maybe going for it isn't the best move, especially keeping in mind that if you hooked up it would turn into a long distance relationship which can be difficult too. you just need to figure out whether its worth the risk or not, and only you can make that decision.

[BlackBetty]

There is attraction for sure, what are you scared of? I say go for it.

like paula said, there is obvious attraction there and i would suspect that she likes you back. but if you are so worried about risking the friendship, then maybe going for it isn't the best move, especially keeping in mind that if you hooked up it would turn into a long distance relationship which can be difficult too. you just need to figure out whether its worth the risk or not, and only you can make that decision.


Ok, I called her last nite. Me and her talked for about 1hour. I told her how I felt and she seemed to understand. She wans't mad or anything. These two twins kept texting her, (she forwarded me the messages) and kept calling her baby, and telling her that they want to cudle with her. She had me to call them and tell them to leave her alone.

So, I don't know what the fuck is going on here.

[AncientCatastrophe]

I'd say go for it....I mean you have a strong relationship with each other there's only a small chance that it could ruin your friendship just say the right words correctly to her and I'm sure she'll understand it.

[cpr97]

i say you talk to her tell her your feelins n then go from there but let her know you dont want to ruin the friendship or have any negative effects of bein honest with her

[Abyssinian]

Sometimes you just have to take a shot and see where things go =) Friends fall in and out over this sort of thing it's true.. but you never know, it could be worth the risk =)

Best of luck!