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TheTruth
December 19th, 2009, 06:47 PM
Okay so i feel like i'm bisexual, but i'm not sure whether i want to be, i guess that would make me straight and just curious but then again i like the idea of being bisexual because i can go for anyone. But something tells me it's more to the curious side. I would like some advice on whether it would be a good idea to be openly straight but secretly experimental/bi. See i like the idea of getting married having kids but way in the furture. So is it okay (i.e. through uni and wateva else) to like secretly be bi and what's it like (directed at those who are doing it themselves)

MusicallyObsessedBoi
December 19th, 2009, 07:32 PM
It's all up to you.

It would be weird if someone came out as straight........

ktkurbst0mp
December 19th, 2009, 07:37 PM
There's nothing wrong with how you're feeling right now.
It's very very common for people to be curious about the same sex.
But all I can say is, try it out.
And if you like it, maybe you really are bi.
But most likely, right now you're just curious.

You'll never know unless you try.

darkiouz
December 20th, 2009, 12:38 PM
If you wanna be bi throughout uni then do it, uni is for living your life the way you want to live it and I dont think anything else can teach that. (im currently looking at going to uni next year)

I think the idea of being bi so you can get both sexes is perfectly fine, but you cant switch from gay/bi/straight; back and forth to please your emotions. You will probly end up a psychological mess.

At then end of the day, you are what you are and dont let people tell you any different.
Sexuality is your choice and no one else can make it for you, but dont try and kid yourself. Be honnest, you will feel much better

:)

MusicallyObsessedBoi
December 20th, 2009, 02:39 PM
If you wanna be bi throughout uni then do it, uni is for living your life the way you want to live it and I dont think anything else can teach that. (im currently looking at going to uni next year)

I think the idea of being bi so you can get both sexes is perfectly fine, but you cant switch from gay/bi/straight; back and forth to please your emotions. You will probly end up a psychological mess.

At then end of the day, you are what you are and dont let people tell you any different.
Sexuality is your choice and no one else can make it for you, but dont try and kid yourself. Be honnest, you will feel much better

:)
What he said, although it's not a choice. ^_~

KidImage
December 20th, 2009, 03:57 PM
If you wanna be bi throughout uni then do it, uni is for living your life the way you want to live it and I dont think anything else can teach that. (im currently looking at going to uni next year)

I think the idea of being bi so you can get both sexes is perfectly fine, but you cant switch from gay/bi/straight; back and forth to please your emotions. You will probly end up a psychological mess.

At then end of the day, you are what you are and dont let people tell you any different.
Sexuality is your choice and no one else can make it for you, but dont try and kid yourself. Be honnest, you will feel much better

:)

yeah he is right its your thoughts and nobody can change it:yes:

darkiouz
December 21st, 2009, 09:31 AM
What he said, although it's not a choice. ^_~

Its not a choice?
Can you explain how sexuality isnt a choice then?
I take it you think its a biological factor like hair colour..