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MysticalBurrito
December 18th, 2009, 08:41 PM
I feel trapped. Sometimes it feels like I'm a boy stuck it a girls body. I don't want boobs but I have them. I don't want curves but I have some. I know I'm bi... I'm scared that people won't accept me for who I am...
Honestly I've felt like a boy for a long time. Ever since I was younger I would act boy-ish and get made fun of for being a tom boy. Then puberty struck. I got my "monthly gift" and everything... Sometimes I force myself to be happy with myself but I'm not...
Sorry just had to get that out...

ShatteredWings
December 18th, 2009, 09:09 PM
Yknow what?

I'm probably going to get attacked/ignored for this, but it has to be said.

You are who you are. Regardless of the outside.

Of course it's going to take getting grips on, being more "ok" with the knowledge that people can/will reject you at some point in your life.

But you've got the one life.
We've all got the one life. Gay, straight, bi, trans, cis, everyone. We've got the one. Make the most of it.

This may or may not be relevent, but I'm writing something else currently that would be. But to avoid usurping another thread....yeah

Schizothemia
December 18th, 2009, 09:49 PM
Yeah, you are who you are. Nothing can change that (besides an expensive surgery and years of hormonal therapy, but that's not what I mean.)

What I'm saying is, embrace who you are, do not be worried about what people think, as long as you are happy with who you are (even if it means coming to grips with your sexuality, and I mean that in both terms of Gender and orientation.)

I know plenty of people who feel the same way you do, and are struggling with it as well, it is a struggle, but one that is felt by many more than most of us think. So, all I can really say is just be you, whoever you think that is :)