s*x with my girlfriend

[Australia 16]

My girlfriend and i have been going out for a while and about a day ago one of her friends asked if we had any sexual interactions. We havnt, and my girlfriend and i talked about it, as much as i would like to have sex with her i know that we are both very young and i dont want anything to happen to our relationship. I am fine with whatever descision she chooses to make, but i dont want to make her feel like im pressuring her into anything. If we did have sex, then it might make things slightly wierd between us and our relationship might last as long as i would like it too. I dont know what i should do or say to her. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

[XxHaViiK]

Just talk to her and reassure her that it's HER choice, and not yours. And she needs to wait until she's ready also. Make sure you tell her that you're happy with what decision she makes.

As for it being awkward around each other, when I lost my virginity to my GF, I thought things might be a little weird between us. But I was surprised to find myself even more attached to her, and she seemed to be a lot happier when I was around. It wasn't awkward for us at all.

[Australia 16]

i am going to see her tomorrow, and i was going to tell her that i was fine with whatever descision she decides to make, and i wont get angry or dissapointed in her if she says no (i actually wont) if she does then i am ok with it and im sure we can work something out, i guess that its just as much her choice as it is mine. thanks for posting

[XxHaViiK]

Just make sure you are both right for each other. Sex is a serious show of affection and should only be given to someone you SERIOUSLY care about.

[Australia 16]

i really do love my girlfriend more than anything in the world. We talked about it last night, and she said that she wants to because she loves me, but at the same time she doesnt want it do come between us.

[XxHaViiK]

Be sure to give her as much time as she needs to decide. It's an extremely serious thing for some people, and a recreational act for others. Try not to make it seem like you're anxious for it. Always try to be very relaxed when you ask if she's decided. But, if you can, just try to avoid asking and let her bring the subject up, because she may feel more comfortable about it that way. It's a complicated subject, and it's fairly easy to slip up. But if you do have sex, make sure to use contraception. And I can say that you most likely will both enjoy sex quite well. It's a fun thing to do. You get to be close to your partner, and feel amazing with each other, it's truly something to cherish.

[Australia 16]

i think at the moment it will not happen, but i will ask her and see what she says, i will tell her that if she is really thinking about doing this with me then i will give her as much time as she needs to decide. i would like children when i am older, but i have school to focus on at this stage in my life, and so does she. If she is seriouse about having sex with me then i will see if there are any other alternitives to actual intercourse that she would like to try.

[Australia 16]

can you please comment, because advice would be really great. i dont care what sort of advice it is, i really need something at the moment

[laurita_21]

let her know that you are ok with her desition and that your not going to make her do anything that she dosn't want to do.
also if you love her and she loves you and you are comfortable with it then it won't come between you guys.
gd luck.xx

[Sage]

If you feel the need to censor the word 'sex', don't have sex.

[Australia 16]

fair enough about the censoring thing. i have never used this site before and i wasnt sure how the 'moderators' would react if i didnt have an * in it. and to laurita i would never make her do something she is uncomfortable with, thanks for your advice

[The Joker]

This isn't the forum equivalent to China, you can write sex, fuck, shit, etc. as long as it's somewhat appropriate to the discussion.

[2D]

Fuck yeah we can write whatever the fuck we want. Shit man!

In all seriousness though as long as you're both cool with it then go for it. I see no reason why not to.

[hazza95]

i really want to have sex with my girfriend too but i think i might be moving too fast

[KidImage]

Dude if you want to give me points then give me points just start to talk to her make her comterable and find your way into the sex convo and if she seems like she doesn't want to talk about tht then she doesnt

[Australia 16]

we talked about it and we decided that we would wait for a while. i didnt get angry at her or dissapointed, and we still love each other just as much as before we started talking about this.

[Giles]

How old actually are you?

[Ballin2much]

well its good that you are still happy with each other after that decision.

[laurita_21]

so its all good between you two :) its good that you are going to wait a wile before doing it. It just means that you are really sure about your relationship.

[StraightAcE]

dude go for it, but wait till like you're 18 or something

[Australia 16]

thanks for your advice everyone

[StraightAcE]

go with the flow

[teen_vt]

it is her choice, take it slow, have fun