please read... and answer.

[itzyogrll]

:confused:Okay this is a continuence to my "OMG.. Please help!" Thread. Please keep reading and don't lock this bc i asked too many questions last time. Or you think i'm annoying. I know ALOT of people have answered this question but, i've gotten the same amount of nos and the same amount of yeses but people said at the most i just teared it a little. so here goes.


So, i was talking to my boyfriend and he said that after he put the 2 fingers in not deep at all he was able to put almost all of his one finger in my vagina. Which he couldn't do before. Now, it kindof hurts to finger myself but at the same time it uncomfortable. Especially at the opening. And, before i could kindof feel a little band a little more on the inside before he did it. And, i examined myself today and i still can just not AS MUCH. But i can still feel the band. And, to me it seems like i'm even tighter down there. My boyfriend hasn't fingered me since that night. So now my question is.


Is there something wrong with down there?


And, now is it a little more clear to know if i broke or teared my hymen?


This is the last time i'll ask...


Do you think i've torn my hymen a little? , broke my hymen? , or neither?


Please answer each of my questions and dno't judge me. This is religion purposes. If i've broke it then i can't get my purity ring next year and i will have let God down.. In my religion. Please.. ?... I pray, hope, wish i didn't...:confused:

I'll give anyone, who helps and is understanding 1 rep up. Thank you.

[MysticalBurrito]

Is there something wrong with down there? Probably not.


And, now is it a little more clear to know if i broke or teared my hymen? You probably tore it. If it wasn't torn it would look/feel the same as it did before.


This is the last time i'll ask do you think i've torn it a little or broke my hymen or neither? I hope so. If not I can try and help to my best.

[itzyogrll]

This is the last time i'll ask do you think i've torn it a little or broke my hymen or neither? I hope so. If not I can try and help to my best.

What do you mean?

[TheKingDavis]

Just FYI if someone bumps your thread, that's not a bad thing

[itzyogrll]

I meant bump it to the side and not answer it.. Like you did. >.> -.-

[MysticalBurrito]

What do you mean?

Sorry, I must of make a mistake reading the question. now that I read it clearly it makes no sense.

[IrishJohnny28]

there is nothing wrong with you. most likely he tore it a little bit or it may be residue from a recent period. i believe personally that he probobly tore it just a bit if your still able to feel the hymen when you examine yourself. also the hymen can be torn from a multitude of other activities including sports and excersize. your hymen being torn does not mean you are not a virgin, however you say its for religious purposes so im not familiar with their definition of virginity. just for clarification in order to get the purity ring do you just have to have the hymen present or completely intact. i dont think youll have to worry about it if you can still feel your hymen. you also may want to refrain from letting your boyfriend finger you until after the ceremony (or however it is done) if youre really worried about it. hope this helps!

[itzyogrll]

Thanks 'IrishJohnny28' I gave you your rep. =] Any body else?

[Obscene Eyedeas]

Tbh most religions speak of this as before when women werent as active it never tore but beacuse women nowadays are more active like johnny said it can tear. If u can feel it still its been slightly torn or stretched but its still there. Most religions when they speak of this speak of it from a sex point of view normally it was viewed if this was broken in a girl it meant they had lost their virginity u have not so u can still gt ur purity ring

[Stealth]

I couldnt tell u if there is something wrong, but there is nothing wrong with breaking your hymne. Its gonna happen one day anyway.

[itzyogrll]

That's not what i asked.. ??.. >.>

[YesterdaysNews]

Don't worry about not getting your purity ring, you haven't had SEX that is the most important part in the whole abstinence thing, in my understanding. Don't worry yourself so much.