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IDGAF
December 17th, 2009, 12:11 PM
I have a friend, and we've been friends for around 5 years. Were both in 10th grade now. We went to the same middle school, and I had a crush on her, but she didn't feel the same. We just started talking again about 2 months ago. During this time, she broke up with her long time bf. I was there and I supported her, Nd now she says she likes me, but I'm afraid that I'm just the rebound guy.
I still have feelings for her but this situation has me all confused
What should I do?

Art_dude
December 17th, 2009, 09:28 PM
Don't lose hope so fast - it's very likely that she has genuine feelings for you. Some people aren't aware of their feelings for another person until they lose someone else. Because she broke up with her boyfriend and you happened to be there to help her through that time, she was able to see your friendship in a new light. Without a committed relationship in the way, and being aware of your supportive presence, feelings she potentially had the whole time were unmasked. Either that, or she's just looking for a rebound XD Lol, Just kidding. I'm hoping it's not the latter but it's possible that she is looking for some emotional solidarity and she's leaning on you for confirmation of that. Give it some time and if the feelings remain the same, she's probably genuinely in it for the long haul. Good luck!