Masturbation

[Haley]

I'm 15 years old and I have been masturbating since i was 11... Today I saw my 13 year old sister masturbating in our room and it made me really horny... So I started masturbating outside our door while she was masturbating in our room... She noticed me and told me to come in so I did and soon we were masturbating together.... It felt really good and was the best orgasm I've ever had.....I didn't feel bad about it at all


Does this make me lesbian???
And also is this incest

[Skumar824]

no you're not a lesbian and it's not incest. it's perfectly normal for family members to masturbate together as long as they are not touching eachother sexually

[sara1220]

I masturbate with my cousins all the time... and I have masturbated with my brother as well... theres nothing wrong with it as long as you are all ok with it.

[Heather09]

If you are both okay with it then your fine. I masturbate with my sister and brother before.

[Bougainvillea]

Well... it's not...
I don't condone this type of behavior. Sexual activities really shouldn't be with family. Especially immediate family.

And I can't say if you're lesbian, or not. As I don't know you. You'll only know from yourself.

[Haley]

thanks we did it again last night and it felt good and we both were fine

[IrishJohnny28]

it is up to you to do some soul searching to figure out wether you're a lesbian or not. just having an experience is not enough to label you that. as for wether or not this is incest i would say no. incest is actual sex between siblings or immediate family members. what you did is perfectly fine and natural however you need to be careful about what you do and i feel i should sugest that you keep your masturbation as a private activity. however that is purely my opinion. :) hope this was helpful!

[IrishJohnny28]

um i dont think that was very appropriate lkuhn792

[blingibong]

i dont think its the right thing to do... yes u didnt have any contact... but (there is allways a but in them things) what if u want to take it futher or she does then its incest... i loads ppl frown on it... i personally think that the famliy should not have any sexual contact at all thats wrong even if u two dont care or what ever.... just keep it where is it but i still dont aprove of it..

[nina1991]

That's just not right, I think you should stop doing that.

[PassionateLoverJohn]

actualy its better than masturbating alone, becouse it builds the family trus :) and I understand you haley. the thing is, I did it with my cousin (girl) I know that im a boy but I felt full orgasm, newer felt better in my life, well exept for sex, ofcorse :D so just keep on doing what you do, just remember the barier is touching :D becouse as it may be so good, it can also make it akvard between you 2 :) so yeah :D (sorry for my terible english, im not from USA ) :D Im from LV :D
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[Thrash Bassist]

It doesn't matter what anybody says, as long as you both like it, it is ok ;)

[godnose]

It doesn't matter what anybody says, as long as you both like it, it is ok ;)

Spot on! Don't worry about it.

I guess if you started having sexual contact then it would be lesbian behaviour. but doesn't MAKE you lesbian. You can still like boys. I am straight, but I've felt things for boys, I kiss my boy friends. The categories of sexuality are completely socially constructed.

If you have contact sexually, as long as it's mutual, then it doesn't really matter. You'll giggle about it when you're older, maybe when you have proper partners you'll laugh about it.

If you do want to do more, just think carefully before you do anything -as should be the way before any sexual activity is done. Do you really want to do it? Would it make you feel uncomfortable afterwards etc.

[BruceWalt]

See the reason I tracked down a site where teens talked like this was for this exact reason. (sigh) My story goes as such. I love Masturbating so I masturbate a good bit at least once a day. So I wanking one evening when the parentals are out and im all into it and I look over and low and behold, my little sister is standing there watching me. I must have looked rather embarrassed and she said to me that she has allways peeked in and watched me masturbate since she was like 10 and says she'll masturbate (now not then)
when she see's me doing it and that it really helps her get off. So im glad to see theres others out there that do and have had this happen before. But now where do i go from here?

P.S. She also managed to get a video of me while on the computer that i have confiscated, should i be worried?

[xluvlyx]

Does this make me lesbian???
And also is this incest

This does not make you lesbian. If you begin to love or fancy another girl then you would be lesbian or bi.

You are not incest unless you involve sex. In this case you didnt. If you begin to touch each other and stuff like that then you will become an incest.

Hope i helped :)

[xluvlyx]

P.S. She also managed to get a video of me while on the computer that i have confiscated, should i be worried?

As long as she isnt showing people this video or putting it online then your fine. She just needs to keep it to herself.

[BruceWalt]

Im assuming she never showed anyone, and if either of my parents had found it we both would have been flogged

[Rebecca L Vaughn]

It does not make you a lesbian unless you really want to be one. You are just curious about other girls.

[Mei-Cindy]

I masturbated with my cousin when I was 10-she was 12-13. I had been masturbating since I was about 5, but never orgasmed. She taught me how to continue jilling until I reached a climax-I was afraid of the buildup feeling when I got close to orgasm and would stop before I climaxed.

She was standing up and pulled her pants down aound her knees-she then started rubbing her clit with her fingertips in rhythm, and pretty soon she got this real painful look on her face and her abdomen jerked up and down a number of times. She told me afterward that this was her orgasm, and how good it felt. I then pulled down my pants around my knees and started to rub my clit-as I got afraid of the buildup feeling she talked to me softly and told me not to ever stop or to be afraid of how strong it felt (which I was). Pretty soon I had my first orgasm. It was so beautiful to do that with her and to watch her have so much pleasure. we did it together a number of times.

I've also recently done it with another cousin-we lie in bed next to each other and rub our clits-it's beautiful.

It feels good to talk abot this, and to know other people have had the same experiences! :)

[Mei-Cindy]

It's amazing that some girls have done it with their brothers before. I've been tempted to do that myself but I've never had the guts to ask him to do it with me. I accidentally saw him m-bating a couple times, though-he never knew I saw him. I watched him do it all the way to completion (ejaculating on his tummy). You can't imagine how much of a turn on that was. So far, that's the only time I've seen a guy ejaculate

[morganism]

I don't think that's bad. I wouldn't call it incest, unless you felt a love, or passion with her. If it was just for fun, why the hell not? (:

[BruceWalt]

See my sister says the same thing, that it really turns her on and all when she see's me cum. So should I let her watch me instead of her sneaking around, im really weirded out about it, and then not I kind of want to encourage it. You didnt think it was weird? How many times did you watch him?

[Affliction]

i think its alright if you dont touch each other and this doesnt mean ur a lesbian

[Jemima]

no i masturbate with my sister whos 10 and we started masturbating the same way as you and ur sister started

[Jemima]

kool me to well keep in touch

[kingers]

Its okay :) I do it with my brother!

[Silverfist64]

@ IrishJohnny28 and Mei-Cindy - Try not to double post. If you would like to edit or add something to a previous post you can click the edit button at the bottom of that post. :)

To answer Haley's questions, nobody can really tell you if your lesbian or not. If someone does that would be a biased opinion of that person and therefore not entirely true. Only you can figure out your own personal sexual orientation. The incest part. Well I would call it incest but it is on the verge of becoming there. Your walking a fine line that can be looked down upon by civilization. Yes, people have masturbated with their siblings before and their relationships have either improved or stayed the same, but that doesnt go for all of them. Infact, the majority of the time is can make the relationship with your sibling akward and ruin it. I would personally say to not continue with what you and your sister are doing, but im not the one making the decision for you. It is your decision and if you want to continue doing what your doing then you can. Just accept any consequences good or bad that may result from it. Ok?

[Dan_UK]

I guess you guys must have good relationships with your siblings, my sister would sooner kill me than do this lol

for the lesbian part, It just shows you were turned on by someone orgasming, whether you're lesbian or not can't be proved by this. Is it incest? well as I said, I would never do this with my sister, but if your relationship is good enough, and you don't touch each other, then it's fine

[harjob]

It is natural to get excite sexually when this thing happen.You are normal

[SmileyGirl]

I don't think that it makes you a lesbian. Some people are excited by even just the thought of sex.

[jen691]

no and no its normal and i also saw my brother j/o and it was a big turn on to me also

[Englishrose]

I'm actually quite surprised at the number of people who have admitted to this type of behaviour. It's not something I've ever felt the need to do. I'm extremely close to my siblings and my cousins, and we're quite an open family sexually, but I just wouldn't personally feel comfortable in that situation. I personally need to be attracted to someone first. But hey, I'm not here to judge.

Anyway, back on topic, I think you need to make the very clear and distinct line if your going to carry this behaviour on. We all do things we wouldn't usually do when we are feeling sexual, so just make sure just being in the same room as each other doesn't turn into actual touching or any other sexual activities. It really isn't a road you want to go down.

[StraightAcE]

no you might be just excited and its not incest as long you didnt have sex with her or something

[BruceWalt]

This whole thread has made me feel loads better. Thanks.

[Ngoc]

I'm glad to know there are other girls that do this with their brothers.

I've been doing it with my brother for about a year now. It started one day when he saw me half naked (from the waist down) when I was coming out of the shower. He stared at me for a while, and then I pulled his pants down (kinda in fun) because I said it was only fair for me to see him if he saw me. To my surprise he was very hard. We talked a lot about sexual things after that, and started masturbating together that day. We've been doing it regularly ever since.

I enjoy it very much, and we learn a lot about the bodies and feelings of the opposite sex this way, and it's safe, with someone you love. I've never had any experience with a guy, so it's also a way to relieve tension and not be rushed into something just because of curiosity.

[Genia]

thanks we did it again last night and it felt good and we both were fine

Hope you're still doing it ... nothing nicer!!

[BruceWalt]

LOL, your glad someone else wanks it with His/Her sex siblings. I no longer have a twitch about it or feel guilty.

[spongcake]

Omg I masterbate with my sister
all the time and when we do it we
lick each other and we touch each
other and it makes me feel sooooo
good.

[josh_13]

thats disgusting doing it with ur brother.

[Flyboy]

It does not make you a lesbian. It is normal to masturabate with each other as long as you don't have any sexual contact and you stop if it gets uncomfortable for you.

[Hannahgurl]

It is perfectly ok no matter what you do as long as you enjoy your self

[honeybear]

me and one of my best friend's masturbate with her older sister (she's 17 now) we've been doing it for along time....I dont think there's anything wrong with it. My mom has seen me (accidentially but still) and I didnt freak out...

[Felix.]

I don't think this is wrong at all, whatever you and your sister feel comfy in, I confess, I may be a tad bias because I have been with a cousin, but I would not know today if it was not for her, it has not changed me, scarred me or anyway made me have any sexual urges for her, meh hope it helps ^^

[benja]

noo it's completly normal . it is not incest you shouldnt feel guilty:)

[CrazyL29]

No just very curious wish i had a siste :(

[Lalalisa]

no it doesnt just natural

[Hotforyou]

I tried started masturbating with my brother or sister but i don't know how to approach them any tips

[Seeker94]

I kinda wish I had a sister lol but I'm the timmid type of guy so I wouldnt even know how to approach a sister even if I had one lol but oh well but no it doesnt make you lesbo you are just curious which is perfectly normal.

[Alx123]

as long as you dont have sexual contact then its perfectly normal

[BruceWalt]

I tried started masturbating with my brother or sister but i don't know how to approach them any tips

You could be all stalker like and try and catch them doing it, or just sneak up to there door and peek in, thats how it was done to me.

[joeyjorulz]

I'm actually quite surprised at the number of people who have admitted to this type of behaviour. It's not something I've ever felt the need to do. I'm extremely close to my siblings and my cousins, and we're quite an open family sexually, but I just wouldn't personally feel comfortable in that situation. I personally need to be attracted to someone first. But hey, I'm not here to judge.

Anyway, back on topic, I think you need to make the very clear and distinct line if your going to carry this behaviour on. We all do things we wouldn't usually do when we are feeling sexual, so just make sure just being in the same room as each other doesn't turn into actual touching or any other sexual activities. It really isn't a road you want to go down.


well written...exactly what i would say :yeah:

[maczed]

Quote: "Omg I masterbate with my sister
all the time and when we do it we
lick each other and we touch each
other and it makes me feel sooooo
good."

Spongecake, that is incest...

[JDB_95]

it's not incest dont know if its lesbian but i couldn't masturbate with a family member it just wouldn't feel right for me but i supose if your ok with it than don't let anyone stop you.

[Mei-Cindy]

I recently mbated with my brother for the first time. OMG it was a hot experience

[RadioPlayer]

No, that dose not make you a lesbian. And it's not incest eaither.

Personally, I think it was perfectally fine to mastrubate with your sister. It's just mastrubating, its not like you went any farther than that. It may even help you to get to know your sister better. It was perfectally fine.

[lipstick_kisses23]

as long as you guys dont feel weird about it the i guess it's fine. ive ever done it myself but since you and your sister are so close than w/e

[Kartellmyst]

Um...it would be really frustrating to tell you the truth but I am...you were young when you started masturbating...ummm..I personally would find it awkward to do that with family members..ummm..it's all in your mind I"m guessing..you have control over what you're body and mind are feeling..:)

[kiki776]

dats normal lol

[shellyj]

I agree with Kiki, it's normal.

[solosarah]

I learned from my cousin, and up untill a few months ago did it around each other. So I vote normal.

[txrose]

MY sister that is two years older than me showed me how to do it when I was about eight, we sleep in same room and do it together just about every day. Maybe later on I will have sex with a guy, but for now I am happy with doing it myself

[steven.taylor]

hmmm, I have an older sister and saw her naked once, but not once did I ever think about masterbating with her or did I get turned on by seeing her naked.
To me it is not normal.

[redd_]

ive caught my brother a couple of times and i think hes spied on me once

[Kilravok]

ha can i enjoy you:)

[Fruitman]

I personally don't have a problem with same-sex inter-family stuff. although i dont do it

[Hanyo]

Wow, never knew so many people m-bate with their siblings or cousins...

As everyone has said, it doesn't make you lesbian, and its not incest unless you actually touch each other sexually.

Its hard to approve of though, because its quite close to touching each other, which WOULD be wrong. Don't listen to people who tell you that its ok as long as you enjoyed it, that's moral relativism, which is basically meaningless.

Think about this, would it be ok to murder someone as long as you enjoyed it? Of course not. Ok, so you say that example doesn't fit because both you and your sister enjoyed it, where obviously the person being murdered in the murder example wouldn't enjoy it. How about this then? Is it ok to use heroin with your sister if you both enjoy it? Of course not. Even though it feels good, its very harmful. It destroys brain pathways so that you can never feel happy without using more heroin, and at the same time it slowly kills you.

In the same way, m-bating with family members isn't really something I can approve of. Its safer than fooling around with boys, or other girls out there, but ask yourself this "What would my parents think? Is it something I could tell them without them freaking out?"

Its your life, and your sisters, just please think about it carefully and be careful.

[maczed]

i do it with my sister and brother all the time

[MyNameIsJack]

Just no.

[SEASHELL]

I'm 15 years old and I have been masturbating since i was 11... Today I saw my 13 year old sister masturbating in our room and it made me really horny... So I started masturbating outside our door while she was masturbating in our room... She noticed me and told me to come in so I did and soon we were masturbating together.... It felt really good and was the best orgasm I've ever had.....I didn't feel bad about it at all


Does this make me lesbian???
And also is this incest
I agree that it doesn't make you a Lesbian. I'ts fun to Masturbayt with other Girls because you can learn more things and share Masturbaytion Methods with each other. Who else to get experience from than with another girl. I think it's okay for girls to do it together, but not for boys to do it together. Masturbaytion is CLEAN, HEALTHY, and NORMAL, so also I can't see anything wrong with Boys and Girls doing it in front of each other. We can learn how each other masturbayts. So long as we Don't Touch each other.

ive caught my brother a couple of times and i think hes spied on me once
I think that's happened to most of us :)

MY sister that is two years older than me showed me how to do it when I was about eight, we sleep in same room and do it together just about every day. Maybe later on I will have sex with a guy, but for now I am happy with doing it myself
That's Fun when your older Sister teaches you, and you can both feel comfortable doing it in the same room together.

i do it with my sister and brother all the time
How old are your Sister & Brother.

hmmm, I have an older sister and saw her naked once, but not once did I ever think about masterbating with her or did I get turned on by seeing her naked.
To me it is not normal.
You DIDN'T Get TURNED ON seeing Your Sister NAKED !??!!!?? . . . . . Are You GAY !??!!?

thanks we did it again last night and it felt good and we both were fine
The Second Time Is ALWAYS The BEST !!! . . . . . Because It's THE FIRST Time Of DOING IT For On A REGULAR Basis.

See the reason I tracked down a site where teens talked like this was for this exact reason. (sigh) My story goes as such. I love Masturbating so I masturbate a good bit at least once a day. So I wanking one evening when the parentals are out and im all into it and I look over and low and behold, my little sister is standing there watching me. I must have looked rather embarrassed and she said to me that she has allways peeked in and watched me masturbate since she was like 10 and says she'll masturbate (now not then)
when she see's me doing it and that it really helps her get off. So im glad to see theres others out there that do and have had this happen before. But now where do i go from here?

P.S. She also managed to get a video of me while on the computer that i have confiscated, should i be worried?
That Depends on How Old She Is and if any of her (Girl) Friends have seen it.

I tried started masturbating with my brother or sister but i don't know how to approach them any tips
Yeah ..... If you know that they masturbate, let them catch you Doing It and -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------tell them they can join you if they want.


please don't repeatly post, use the edit button - LHT

[Clawhammer]

You DIDN'T Get TURNED ON seeing Your Sister NAKED !??!!!?? . . . . . Are You GAY !??!!?

No, it just means that the idea of incest doesn't appeal to him.

As for the main topic, I personally view masturbation as a harmless thing that won't cause any trouble as long as it is done privately. I do question getting turned on by siblings, but it's not my life. Just my opinion, I don't masturbate with other people.

Post merged - LHT

[SEASHELL]

me and one of my best friend's masturbate with her older sister (she's 17 now) we've been doing it for along time....I dont think there's anything wrong with it. My mom has seen me (accidentially but still) and I didnt freak out...
My Mum walked in on Me when I was 11 and I was mastubayting naked. I was almost at Orgasm; although I didn't know what Orgasm was at 10: I just knew that It felt Good and made Me Excited :) ...... Anyway, when she saw what I was doing, she just said "Sorry Sweetheart, let me know when you are finished and I'll come back in", and then she left my room. She was fully aware that I masturbated regularly.
Now, If I'm Masturbating she'll just walk in and say "I Bet That feels Awesome", and Smile and just continue doing what she came into my room for, and it doesn't bother either of us. Sometimes she'll just stand and Smile at me while I have an Orgasm.

[Dan_UK]

My Mum walked in on Me when I was 11 and I was mastubayting naked. I was almost at Orgasm; although I didn't know what Orgasm was at 10: I just knew that It felt Good and made Me Excited :) ...... Anyway, when she saw what I was doing, she just said "Sorry Sweetheart, let me know when you are finished and I'll come back in", and then she left my room. She was fully aware that I masturbated regularly.
Now, If I'm Masturbating she'll just walk in and say "I Bet That feels Awesome", and Smile and just continue doing what she came into my room for, and it doesn't bother either of us. Sometimes she'll just stand and Smile at me while I have an Orgasm.

Generally there's nothing wrong with that, but the very last sentence seems a bit weird really, to stand there and smile as you orgasm

[DeEnd]

I'm not goign to judge you, but here are some things to think about. Masturbation is a sexual activity, with yourself. So what you have to ask yourself is if you want to be having a sexual activity with your sister. Just because other people do somethign doesn't mean it is necessary healthy or normal. You've done it, and if you decide its incest, or somethign you don't want to do, don't beat yourself up or feel bad for it. Just move on and tell your sister you don't want to do it any more if she brings it up.

[jhoul]

I'm 15 years old and I have been masturbating since i was 11... Today I saw my 13 year old sister masturbating in our room and it made me really horny... So I started masturbating outside our door while she was masturbating in our room... She noticed me and told me to come in so I did and soon we were masturbating together.... It felt really good and was the best orgasm I've ever had.....I didn't feel bad about it at all


Does this make me lesbian???
And also is this incest

No not at all it's not like you were kissing and stuff. lol and do watch lesbian porn?

[laxbro]

if it feels good it cant be that bad

[fightnight71]

hey guys my first post. I actually really want to masturbate with my sister. I'm 16 she is 14 and i know she is a very horny girl. She masturbates with my cousin and all her friends so i know she will do it with me but my probelm is i don't know how to apprach her on it. Help please. And btw incest is only if there is any contact between family members which me and my sis will be keeping our hands to ourself.

[LoveMyBody]

It doesn't make you lesbian, you could be bisexual.
It's not incest but I wouldn't do that with family, especially not immediate family

[patq]

lol! i started masturbatin when i was 5 too i didnt know if this was normal or not and i didnt c anyone i just did it naturally and i did have orgasm but no semen

[Discomposure]

hey guys my first post. I actually really want to masturbate with my sister. I'm 16 she is 14 and i know she is a very horny girl. She masturbates with my cousin and all her friends so i know she will do it with me but my probelm is i don't know how to apprach her on it. Help please. And btw incest is only if there is any contact between family members which me and my sis will be keeping our hands to ourself.

I wouldn't if I were you, im sure it can easily lead to incest, which is just ... wrong.

[mudgee]

No way, its cool to do that with your family as long as you dont touch

[Tanya Brown]

I masturbate all the time in the house after school and it is totally cool. My older brother like caught me once and said it was just part of growimg up. I think it is ok to masturbate, my mum does it as she is a single parent, so if mums do it I am thinking it is ok for us teens to do it. My mam knows I masturbate she is cool about it. I had a boyfriend once and he masturbated over like my chest which was totally disgusting.

[XXgirly_1]

in my opinion, its perfectly normal! me and my brother and sister masturbate together all the time!

[abbygal]

Ive been cought by cusions before, I masturbate with my brother sometimes, nothing wrong with it, we arent having sex or anything

[Sadako]

I think you were just aroused by the fact that your sister was masturbating. To be honest, I think I'd have those kinds of feelings at that point too. But I would never want to masturbate with her. That would just mess up our entire relationship, that we're already trying hard to keep up. She's told me that she masturbates regularly though, and frankly, that's all I need to know.

[Taaylor]

i really love mastrabating !
at the strat i was scared to have a orgasam, and i told my big sisster this (i was 11 and she was 13), then one night when our parents were out she took me into the room and striped, then she told me to take my clothes of so i did she lay down and started rubbing her clit then she started moaning and had this really pleaseruble ecspression, then she told me to start rubbing my clit so i did and she told me not to stop soon i reached a orgasaam is was amazing ! <3 but then she cam on top of me and started lick my clit at the time i though this was part of it but she started touching me and evereything nad i really enjoyed it does that make me a lesbian ? xxxxxx

[jet7up]

I masturbate alone , most of time at night in my bedroom
and I can get an orgasm everytime :yummy: , fingering 2-3 fingers + rubbing the clit :):)

[johnnysbigday]

Nothing wrong with masturbating. *thumbs up!!!!*

[Punk_Kid]

Never seen anyone masturbate, besides myself. I would never masturbate with my brother, I would consider that gay.

As for you being bi, idk. You may be curious and theres nothing wrong with that.

And as for incest, as long as you don't have any sexual contact then your fine;D

[johnnysbigday]

There's nothing really wrong with doing stuff with your family if you're comfortable with it.

You just need to remember to say "Screw what other people think!" and enjoy yourself and the things you do and the things you like!

:D

[beachbumchick]

It's totally ok and not incest. I think it's normal to be more aroused just from knowing (or seeing) someone else is doing it. i do it w/my sisters sometimes too

[jet7up]

I've caught masturbating my older brother and this made me horny and wet :whoops: :whoops:

[Veronica_kitty]

i see no prob here. you dont have sex with each other and dont touch. my cousins, a girl and boy, do it together whenever we have a family meeting and they do it often when they are at their home. sure it turns you on, maybe the most cause your masturbation partner is your sibling/cousin/etc., but as long as you dont cross the border of incest, what i think is "your hand on your siblings/cousins/etc. body", it is cool and really fun.
and i have to admit, it sometimes turns me on to think about my two cousins masturbate each other while they watch each others privates BECAUSE they are sis and bro. and it definitely turns me on when my male cousin sees me nude and watches me rubbing and fingering down there.
maybe that is so because i dont have a brother or a sister.

[Fact]

This should have been classed as a bump a long time ago.

:locked: