Late bloomer questions

[Claudius]

Hello!

I'll be 15 next February, and I'm asking myself a couple questions related to puberty. I'm rather on the tall side in my class (177cm in height one month ago), my voice changed about two years ago, and my penis grew somewhat during the last year. However, in most other aspects, I feel I'm lagging behind: I'm pretty much hairless, not even having pubes, and I don't ejaculate when I orgasm.

I'd like to know if it is normal not to have pubes at my age. My doctor says I'm definitely showing signs that I'm in puberty, but the lack of hair somewhat worries me - I fear that somebody else notices it and makes fun of it.

I'd also know if it is normal if I don't have a long refractory period. People seem to say that it should be at least a few minutes, but mine is rather a few seconds, as most of the time I stay hard after the orgasm and can do it a couple times in 1/4 hour. Is that something that comes with cum? Are there others able to do the same?

Finally, I'm in love with a girl and for more than a year already, we're together. We both want to have intercourse, but I've never heard about somebody doing it while not able to cum. Are there any risks involved by that situation, like hurting, etc (I'd put a condom in all cases, of course)? Would the pleasure for her still be ok? It may sound a stupid question, but I've no idea if the orgasm without sperm I have is the same as one with, so maybe it could change the feelings for both of us?

Thanks alot for your answers!

[Ballin2much]

not sure, but my ollder bro was very, very tall, and from what i could tell he didn start, ya know, that stuff until a later age.

[IDGAF]

U can still orgasm if u don't ejaculate, and if u stay hard after ur first orgasm, ur gf can get more pleasure lol

[enzenzz]

You should still try to use a condom when you have sex, you never know when you'll start to ejaculate.

Don't worry about being able to get hard after you orgasm, think of it as a good thing.

As for being hairless, I know a guy who was like that but it eventually grew when he was 16.

[hiker1992]

I wouldn't say you're a late bloomer, as there are a lot of people who are upwards of your age and still haven't hit puberty with full force. I didn't start getting hair until I was about 14 or 15, so I think you're good in that respect. I did however have my first ejaculation when I was 13... but regardless, I don't think you have anything to worry about. When it comes to sex, your ability to cum truly doesn't influence her ability to have an orgasm whatsoever, she'll be able to do just fine, haha.

[dahardy9]

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[OstrichAficionado]

It's best if you'd still use a condom when having sex even though you don't ejaculate yet.
You never know where those big bad STDs are lurking at.

Btw I love the thread name. :)

[nick]

Don't worry about being a late bloomer, it sounds as if things are happening for you in some respects so I'm sure you'll catch up before too long.

When you do start to ejaculate you will amost certainly find that you need a longer recovery period after you get to orgasm. I really dont think you need to worry about that being different for you with the dry orgasms.

If you are going to have sex, or any form of intimacy with your girlfriend I think you should warn her in advance that you dont ejaculate, otherwise she might feel as if she's done something wrong. It wouldnt really make much difference to her enjoyment of the actual act. You must make sure to use a condom though, that first ejaculation could happen any time!

[greg95]

Hello!

I'll be 15 next February, and I'm asking myself a couple questions related to puberty. I'm rather on the tall side in my class (177cm in height one month ago), my voice changed about two years ago, and my penis grew somewhat during the last year. However, in most other aspects, I feel I'm lagging behind: I'm pretty much hairless, not even having pubes, and I don't ejaculate when I orgasm.

I'd like to know if it is normal not to have pubes at my age. My doctor says I'm definitely showing signs that I'm in puberty, but the lack of hair somewhat worries me - I fear that somebody else notices it and makes fun of it.

I'd also know if it is normal if I don't have a long refractory period. People seem to say that it should be at least a few minutes, but mine is rather a few seconds, as most of the time I stay hard after the orgasm and can do it a couple times in 1/4 hour. Is that something that comes with cum? Are there others able to do the same?

Finally, I'm in love with a girl and for more than a year already, we're together. We both want to have intercourse, but I've never heard about somebody doing it while not able to cum. Are there any risks involved by that situation, like hurting, etc (I'd put a condom in all cases, of course)? Would the pleasure for her still be ok? It may sound a stupid question, but I've no idea if the orgasm without sperm I have is the same as one with, so maybe it could change the feelings for both of us?

Thanks alot for your answers!

no you can have intercourse even if u dont cum yet. I speak from experience ;)

[hocekykid22]

if u cant cum that means you dont have to use a condom :)

[HikaruTheHunter]

if u cant cum that means you dont have to use a condom :)

That is not true. Precum can still carry some cum, and if that gets into a girl, there is still a chance they can get pregnant.

[argentinaandy77]

Hello!

I'll be 15 next February, and I'm asking myself a couple questions related to puberty. I'm rather on the tall side in my class (177cm in height one month ago), my voice changed about two years ago, and my penis grew somewhat during the last year. However, in most other aspects, I feel I'm lagging behind: I'm pretty much hairless, not even having pubes, and I don't ejaculate when I orgasm.

I'd like to know if it is normal not to have pubes at my age. My doctor says I'm definitely showing signs that I'm in puberty, but the lack of hair somewhat worries me - I fear that somebody else notices it and makes fun of it.

I'd also know if it is normal if I don't have a long refractory period. People seem to say that it should be at least a few minutes, but mine is rather a few seconds, as most of the time I stay hard after the orgasm and can do it a couple times in 1/4 hour. Is that something that comes with cum? Are there others able to do the same?

Finally, I'm in love with a girl and for more than a year already, we're together. We both want to have intercourse, but I've never heard about somebody doing it while not able to cum. Are there any risks involved by that situation, like hurting, etc (I'd put a condom in all cases, of course)? Would the pleasure for her still be ok? It may sound a stupid question, but I've no idea if the orgasm without sperm I have is the same as one with, so maybe it could change the feelings for both of us?

Thanks alot for your answers!

Well my first wank was with a friend when we were 11, but we couldn't start ejaculating until we were both 13