Help me out plz!!

[tom2k9]

I dont mean to sound up myself when i say this, but i think im an alright looking lad, and every now and again i get told that a girl fancies me. But even when its blatantly obvious they fancy me i dont have the guts to ask them :( can i have some advice on the best way to approach things like this?? Please help because looking back at the opportunities ive had, i REALLY regret not asking them :) thanks

[2D]

Just do it.

[Kahn]

Try flirting with them. And if you two are alone ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. Thats how I got my first girlfriend pretty much. We were lying on the beach from day to night, and eventually just started talking about ourselves. I asked her out, she said yes. We lay there looking at the stars and talking the rest of the night. Wasn't even awkward.

Hope this helps.

~Adam

[Gumleaf]

i agree with adam. if you are nervous about it, the trick is to keep it casual, and by casual i mean a casual situation. for example, instead of asking "will you go out with me?" you might ask instead "would you like to go out for ice cream with me?" that keeps it casual, the only obligation in the thing is to have ice cream together. alternatively, you might ask her to go on a walk with you or something? these are all simple ways to put yourself in a position where you can show her you are interested without coming out and asking her. you may find by spending more time alone together, the easier it will be to either ask her straight out or push things in that direction later on. good luck dude. its worth it if you have a nice girlfriend.

[AncientCatastrophe]

I agree with the both of them.
The thing is don't be nervous when asking her out.....Just be normal, if she notices that your shaking, she may feel awkward and turn you down...Just keep it cool. :cuddle: