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Davidh1993
December 16th, 2009, 08:55 AM
Hi im 16 years old in three months ill be 17. I have sex with my gf often and masturbate rarely i have never been able to reach egaculation i can get a fluid to come out which at first i belive to be piss but its not because its clear and sticky so i belive it to be precum. Now yesterday i was having sex with my gf and the condom broke. :/ now im freeking out because i dont know if the precum could contain sperm even though ive never egaculated before. my i have a couple questions.
1. will you know if you egaculated?
2. Can the precum i get, get her pregnate even though i never have egaculated before.
3. why at almost 17 can i not igaculate?
4. should i be worrying about her being pregnate/?
plz answer. Im freeeking out and dont know if i should get a morning after pill or not my brother and friends say im fine but idk.
Kitty Purry
December 16th, 2009, 04:39 PM
Well precum does have sperm so it is possible that she could get pregnet. There is a big chance that you could be sterile because u can not ejaculate
Ballin2much
December 16th, 2009, 04:40 PM
if she is pregnant, marry her...?
Rutherford The Brave
December 16th, 2009, 04:42 PM
Well precum does have sperm so it is possible that she could get pregnet. There is a big chance that you could be sterile because u can not ejaculate
Being sterile doesnt mean you cannot ejaculate it simply means your sperm are not living and you cannot reproduce. Im sure youll be able to ejaculate soon.
mattmattmatt
December 16th, 2009, 05:31 PM
i have never been able to reach egaculation i can get a fluid to come out which at first i belive to be piss but its not because its clear and sticky so i belive it to be precum.
By "i have never been able to reach egaculation" do you mean you've never ejaculated or never orgasmed? Orgasm is the intense pleasure that comes at the point of sexual climax. Ejaculation is the release of semen that accompanies orgasm (if, of course, one has reached the point of puberty where ejaculation becomes possible).
It sound to me like you're ejaculating. If this "fluid" comes when you orgasm, it probably is an ejaculation. It is believed that precum (preejaculate in medical terms) does not contain sperm, but it can pick up sperm from a previous ejaculation as it passes through the urethra.
QUESTION: Does anyone know whether it is possible to have precum before one is capable of ejaculating? I don't know.
Now yesterday i was having sex with my gf and the condom broke. :/
Condoms do that, more often than you might expect.
1. will you know if you egaculated?
Yes you will. As I said above, if this fluid release occurs at the point climax, then it is semen, which contains sperm. Otherwise...
2. Can the precum i get, get her pregnate even though i never have egaculated before.
If indeed, you've never ejaculated, chances are your precum doesn't contain sperm. If you've determined that you have ejaculated, it may or may not.
3. why at almost 17 can i not igaculate?
If you really can't ejaculate, you should see a doctor. 15 is the usual cutoff point for a truly late (as opposed to just later in the normal range) puberty. There may not be a problem, but if there is, the sooner you see a doctor, the more likely they will be to be able to treat it.
4. should i be worrying about her being pregnate/?
"Worrying" You shouldn't be pulling your hair out or not eating over it. However, you should care. If she's pregnant, you're the father and you have a moral and legal obligation to help her and the child.
dont know if i should get a morning after pill or not
Two things about the morning-after pill:
1. It only works within a short period of time (morning-after, get it?)
2. The morning after pill is an "abortifacient," not a "contraceptive." That is, rather than preventing conception, the fertilized egg doesn't implant in the uterus and dies.
We could argue forever about whether it's a child or not, but if you're hunting in the woods and see something move, do you shoot because it might me a deer, or do you not shoot because it might be a human?
Bottom line: She's probably not pregnant, but if she is, ther are plenty of families waiting to adopt. I know it's hard, but it's worth it.
Giles
December 16th, 2009, 05:41 PM
Hi im 16 years old in three months ill be 17. I have sex with my gf often and masturbate rarely i have never been able to reach egaculation i can get a fluid to come out which at first i belive to be piss but its not because its clear and sticky so i belive it to be precum. Now yesterday i was having sex with my gf and the condom broke. :/ now im freeking out because i dont know if the precum could contain sperm even though ive never egaculated before. my i have a couple questions.
1. will you know if you egaculated?
2. Can the precum i get, get her pregnate even though i never have egaculated before.
3. why at almost 17 can i not igaculate?
4. should i be worrying about her being pregnate/?
plz answer. Im freeeking out and dont know if i should get a morning after pill or not my brother and friends say im fine but idk.
1. Most probably.
2. The precum 'flushes out' the tubes before the actual semen. So it can contain sperm even if you've never ejaculated before. Therefore it COULD get her pregnant.
3. Late bloomer.
4. Not worrying, but if she is then you must be prepared to stand by her. Regardless of the mocking you could receive.
Don't worry about any of this. The chances are she isn't pregnant anyway;
:- The condom might not of broken.
:- The precum might not of contained live sperm
:- The sperm might not of completed it's 'mission'.
There's allot of variables, in favour of her not being pregnant.
If she is then life will change allot for the both of you, nevermind the child, but as long as you stick together then it should be fine.
Not Ejaculating:- You're either a late bloomer or your blahblah ( What's it called when you can't ejaculate?). You might not think so, but at 17 you can still be going through puberty.
alex_327
December 16th, 2009, 06:36 PM
Well precum does have sperm so it is possible that she could get pregnet. There is a big chance that you could be sterile because u can not ejaculate
Sterility means he wouldn't be able to have children...he can still ejaculate...it's just nonfertile.
alex_327
December 16th, 2009, 06:37 PM
Can you reach orgasm? "Cum" but just not have the whiteness assosiated with semen.
nick
December 16th, 2009, 06:50 PM
1. will you know if you egaculated?
2. Can the precum i get, get her pregnate even though i never have egaculated before.
3. why at almost 17 can i not igaculate?
4. should i be worrying about her being pregnate/?
plz answer. Im freeeking out and dont know if i should get a morning after pill or not my brother and friends say im fine but idk.
First off, you are absolutely right to be using condoms even if you think you have never achieved a full ejaculation. I will try to answer your questions...
yes, omg, you will feel it happen
precum can contain semen, your situation is unusual but its best not to take the risk
it happens, different people have different body clocks
Yes, but its unlikely
Weather
December 20th, 2009, 07:20 PM
No comment...
MusicallyObsessedBoi
December 20th, 2009, 08:22 PM
Now yesterday i was having sex with my gf and the condom broke.
That's why you wear 2 condoms!
Richthegamer99
December 20th, 2009, 08:36 PM
That's why you wear 2 condoms!
2 comdoms even worse the friction beteweenthem would break the comdom
(maby it if you had 200 comdons on):)
Mr. Awesome
December 20th, 2009, 08:37 PM
That's why you wear 2 condoms!
Wearing 2 condoms can actually be bad because the condom on top can easily slide off and the friction caused by the top one can easily damage the bottom one
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