unsure bout sexuality

[frothinsam]

i find guys attractive more than girls, like the dick and face of a guy but also like a chicks face and bum and boobs but dont think i could ever kiss a guy, theirs something in my heart that thinks i might be gay, but i love that feeling that i get when i have a a gf that feeling of love u get and also dont know if i could ever live with out gettin married and having kids

when it says emotionally attached to a guy what does it mean ?
do u think im gay or just extremly curious?

[iamthecheese]

i pretty much feel exactly the same way and i'm also going through a confusion myself. are you attracted to any guys in particular? emotionally attracted means that you can pretty much fall in love with a guy, not always just do physical things, at least i think so anyway. it could mean that you are bisexual, or you are possibly going through a transitional period in terms of sexuality. it is pretty interesting how we both feel the same way though. i guess the best way is to try things out and be open to changes and the such but only do things that you want to do and feel comfortable doing.

[Billy15]

i think you and i are very much alike except i doubt i could ever be sexual with a girl. i see girls that i think are cute but a vagina and big boobs do nothing 4 me at all. i think a guys body is a lot sexier but i also would love to have kids some day but doubt thats going to happen. i could kiss another boy and i think stuff like kissing and cuddling and loving each other like a bf & bf is what emotional attachment means and i think i could do that but will admit im stall way confused.

[DareDevil]

Emotional and sexual attachment (as I've recently begun to understand better) become a lot easier to identify once you've experienced both together. The emotional attachment is more of that cuddly side, that almost nurturing desire to be there. The "lovey-dovey" stuff that may be similar to how you are with friends, but the priority may be a bit higher for someone you truly like.

Whereas the sexual attraction is a pretty obvious answer, whether you've been in a relationship or not. It's the desire and intensity whenever you and someone of interest are doing anything physical that's exciting and you get even more excited by it, or even just the thought of physicality.

I would guess you're bi at least, and your hesitation with guys is based off of maybe how you were raised or the environment in your school. There's a pretty good chance if you were surrounded by a group where the sexuality is a little more prevelant, some of those issues would become less severe. I can tell you early on in highschool I was convinced I was bi, would date guys for fun until I wanted to settle down and I would get married to a woman and have children. Sophomore and Junior year it became more and more obvious my interest in girls was waning until it was completely gone, whereas guys remained just as important if not moreso. You could still go through that transition I suppose.

You could just be curious of course. As anyone on this forum will tell you, only you can really know for sure- we just make guesses (sometimes educated, sometimes not.)

Recap: Emotionally attracted to a guy- All the 'lovey-dovey' stuff
Are you gay- Probably not. Bi perhaps.

[frothinsam]

thanks for the replyies
i think im just really curious, im attracted to guys in the way of their penis, body and face (to answer ur question i am the chesse), like if i see a really hot chick im like O YEAH but i dont think i could live with out that love u get when ur in love with a chick, the emotional stuff

[iamthecheese]

yeah i know what you mean. just gotta give it time i guess, that's kinda what i'm gonna try to do with it