Real Help

[R&b_Boy]

When I'm about to go up to a gurl I kind of like hesitate because I get nervous and I pace . and try to think of what to say. i try not to hesitate and be nervous not to but it's like I dunno..any advise!?!

[ScotsGirl]

Why do you think you get so nervous?
You dont have to answer if you dont want to of course :)
But it might help to think about it.

The truth is, the girls you are hoping you have something interesting to say to, are probably worrying about the exact same thing ;) .
They arent any different (obviously i dont mean physiologically :P ).
I jsut mean, youve all been on this world for approx. the same number of years, you all go to school, you all probably love moaning about school (hell, i know i did! :P ) you all have to worry about getting homework in on time, about what you want to do with your life, about what you want to do with your afternoon! :P You have lots in common!
Just take a deep breath and relax then say hi! Ask her how she is, how her last class was, ask her what she is doing after school, nothing? then ask her what she would like to be doing, what her interests are, if she is going anywhere in the summer, what her last holiday was, tell her about your holidays...the possibilities are endless! :D
Dont think negative thoughts! You have every right to be talking to ANYone you wish to talk to. No one is too good for you and no one is below you.
Just go for it sweetie!
Goodluck with everything! ;)
xxx

[Fruitloop0111]

hey, we all get nervous - but chicks like the guy to make the 1st move.

its hard at 1st, but uve gotta have something to say! if u stumble - oportunity LOST!

[Confused Posh Boy]

Look dont worry just reherse the speach in you head.

At the start of the convo be casual and brake the ice by talking about something else that intrests you both, then subtly bring in the speach. It worked for me. Good luck i hope it goes well

[Elscire]

don't forget to dress up nicely too!

[R&b_Boy]

thanx gamefreak lol

[ScotsGirl]

its hard at 1st, but uve gotta have something to say! if u stumble - oportunity LOST!

It isnt opportunity lost!
You jsut try again.
The next time you try it also gives you something to laugh about.
Dont be afraid to laugh at yourself.
Blame any stumbles on your brain being mush after a whole day of school, or that you'd had faar too much cola that day, or you could even try (if youre friends with her) explaining that its because youre deseperate to go and see a new film but you havent been able to round up anyone to go, then ask her if she has seen the film ;) ..and if she would like to...ask if her friends would aswell...ask your friends...that way you can arrange a whole day of being around girls! :D
Anyway, as i said before, there is always something to say!
Dont try so hard, jsut relax and think about what youd actually like to talk about. What do you want to know about her?

Have fun! :D
xxx

[Bill Cosby]

I used to hesitate when I was young, but then I remembered that old army mantra "Be all you can be." so I went and did drugs instead.

[Sean Connery]

I also used to have this problem, but then I said to the girl "I love you" and everything worked out.

[SataAndagi]

I also used to have this problem, but then I said to the girl "I love you" and everything worked out.

I'm afraid of girls. Like, not like Boo Ghosts and Boogie Man afraid, but scared of embarassment. So I stay away.

[Sean Connery]

That's why when I do it, I think of things that comfort me, like pancakes.

[NOOOOOOOOO)]

hay, show the reel person you is, it works, and ther are plenty of others, lyk wen i protested, I stood up tall, even tho I wuz mocked.