Help me get over this!!!

[mitcho18]

ok.. so my girlfriend that i have been with for a while now has had two boyfriends before me that she has bad sex with both of them... I on the other hand have not had sex before... I am worried that i wont be able to " hold my own" when it comes to being in bed with her... Am i over-thinking this or what??? I really like this girl and would like this to last and i just want to be "prepared"... Any ideas or suggestions...

[Gumleaf]

well i have a few points. first of all, don't allow yourself to be put into a position where sex is on the table being offered and you accept to keep her happy. wait until you feel ready. i honestly think the more you worry about it, the less successful your 'performance' will be. if she knows its your first time i'm sure she'll be understanding if it's not the best sex ever, unless she is a bitch or something. part of sex is learning what eachother likes because everyone is different. try not to overthink it, when the time comes, use your instincts and help eachother to find what works best. hope that makes some sort of sense?

[mitcho18]

thank you!! that helped a lot... she knows that it will be and shes a great girl... thanks for the advice...lol