Guys...cleavage?

[SnowWolf]

Hey guys, do you guys like it or hate it when a girl you are going on a first date with or meeting up with for the first time shows some cleavage?

[Jean Poutine]

I think cleavage is vulgar.

Then again I'm more of the turtleneck/slight v-neck type. My opinion probably doesn't account for much.

[SnowWolf]

I think cleavage is vulgar.

Then again I'm more of the turtleneck/slight v-neck type. My opinion probably doesn't account for much.

ehh, every one has an opinion. Then again im not talking abbout looking at the girl and thinking "BOOBS", lol, no, im saying more like "Wow, shes pretty, and she has a nice chest" or something like that!

[Kahn]

I honestly could care less. As long as she's and interesting person (Not saying I would like someone cute as well. Just don't care. ;)

[Jean Poutine]

ehh, every one has an opinion. Then again im not talking abbout looking at the girl and thinking "BOOBS", lol, no, im saying more like "Wow, shes pretty, and she has a nice chest" or something like that!

Anything much lower than a standard t-shirt has me running for the woods.

I'm extremely puritanical when it comes to stuff like this. I simply can't see myself going out with someone I would consider scantily clad (and I easily consider people almost naked). And yes, I am weird and judgemental.

No double standards, though. I look down equally upon men with wifebeaters in public.

[2D]

It's really not that much of a big deal. Just wear something that's a little flattering but not a magnet to eyes.

[Mal]

It really depends. Show off what you've got by all means, but don't go overboard. Keeping something to the imagination is often sexier than just showing it off.

[Gumleaf]

i think a little is fine, but not too much. i mean, if you have them pushed up to the point where they are nearly falling out the top, thats way too much. i wouldn't want a girl to think that she need to show off her rack to keep me interested.

[Rutherford The Brave]

I think it doesn't matter. I won't be looking down there. I'll be focusing on her eyes and what she has to say.

[SnowWolf]

It really depends. Show off what you've got by all means, but don't go overboard. Keeping something to the imagination is often sexier than just showing it off.

haha, good point!

[theOperaGhost]

Some is fine, but if it looks slutty, you're getting dumped. I can't stand slutty looking girls.

[LoneWanderer]

basically, boobs=good. In fact the best way for a girl to look is to have no top on at all. But seriously, some cleavage would be nice, don't over do it though.

[cherry_boi]

well yes and no

by flaunting ur cleavage u may give the wrong impression, and attract the wrong kind of guy

unless ur plan is to put out early and often

but if u do show cleavage and don't put out the guy may feel led on and that causes problems

i think there are better ways to show off your sex appeal that will inspire integrity in the relationship and attract the kind of guy who's in it for you, not himself

a stylish outfit that doesn't show too much skin is probly the best bet for a first date, but yea we wana be able to focus on the conversation and not think about what angle we will have to be at to see all the way down that low cut top ur wearing >.<

[Kitty Purry]

Some is yes but not too much gives the wrong impression

[scuba steve]

cleavage = good but i really wouldn't mind if she was just in a sweater or something she'd still look pretty.

[Kinetic]

lol show enuf for you to use ur imagination...

i normally don't mind at all.
but a little somethin is nice just not too much as to when the girls gotta pull up her shirt every 30 seconds while ur walking

[Art_dude]

BOOOBBBSSS 0_0

hahahah just kidding! Sorry I couldn't resist fitting the typical male stereotype ^_^
I think everyone should dress to accentuate their good features. For example, if you have great arms, go for sleeveless dresses. If you have good hips go for slim cut jeans. If you have a good chest, show some cleavage. None of those things have to do with being slutty, it's simply dressing yourself well. Why would you hide the beautiful female figure? Showing off too much cleavage would be the opposite of dressing yourself well: slutty is unflattering on everyone. I guess the point I'm making is that there is a way to show cleavage tastefully and there is a way to do it grossly.

[Brazdar]

It depends, I like it, but though it can be a real turn off is it's too sluttish

[overcome.]

Showing off a slight bit of what you've got is fine imo, but it's kind of obvious when people (not just women) go to drastic lengths. But if the guy is really interested in you and would like to see you more, there's probably a good chance he'll find it tacky and not really appreciate it. It could give off a negative impression and attract the wrong kind of person that wouldn't neccessarily want a relationship. Everybody has their different opinions. I'd rather her keep covered up and just get to know her, talk to her and have fun.

[Mikey]

Some clevage is nice but not alot. Don't come off as a slut but don't be too strict.

[BiBoy13]

A little bit showing is fine but it's up to the girl and what she feels comfortable in. Anyway i wouldnt really be looking there i'd be too busy looking at her face and listening to her etc

[john909]

enuf where the guy can get a peek but not to where theyre popping out

[Aηdy]

A little bit is good, if they're on the edge of coming out then that's just slutty and unattractive tbh.

[Patchy]

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