Sister problems D:

[BillxxP]

Sorry if this is in the wrong section im new here :X. So im thirteen and in a long distance relationship, and me and my girlfriend have phone sex sometimes. first of all, me and my girlfriend were texting a long time ago and started talking dirty. Point being, I wound up telling my soccer coach I wanted to play with his clit. (woops!) so I freaked out and went to my sister. She thought it was gross that I was saying these things to my girlfriend(my sisters 15) and I feel like she could black mail me now because of it. Second of all. Like 3 or so weeks ago my sister and her friend were over. My sister wanted the computer but me and my girlfriend were talking over webcam so I said now. My sister was like... if you dont give it to me I'll tell mom about your little conversations with Kaela!(My girlfriend) So I gave it to her but had her come to my room real quick. We talked about her using that against me and she said that she hears the things I say to my girlfriend and that it *disgusts her*. This made me feel really like sick and guilty and I feel like I cant ever get in a fight with her again and that if I do shes going to tell people about what she hears me talking about with my girlfriend. So I dont know what to do right now I feel scared to even tick my sister off the slightest. Also she told me she would never ever tell anyone about me talking dirty to my girlfriend but I think some day shes going to get really really mad and just blurt it out to my mom. What should I do? help please! oh and im afraid that my soccer coach isnt going to let me hand out with or talk to his son, my best friend. What should I do about this? My coach told me he wouldnt tell my mom.

[rageingecho]

this is a story so its probably gonna get locked

[BillxxP]

Well not really a story I just needed to tell that in order to ask the questions: what should I do?

[Bougainvillea]

It's not against the rules. You just cant tell stories about things like sex, unless it has something to do with what you're asking about.

Tell, your sister to leave you to your own business. She's intruding, and making you feel bad about something you shouldn't.

[Mzor203]

The unfortunate thing with this kind of situation is that, in the end, there's nothing you can do to ensure your sister doesn't say anything to anyone. While I won't touch on the morality of this all that much, I'm just going to say that if you are going to engage in this kind of activity, you have to be prepared for the consequences that may arise from it. This is something we say on these forums a lot, and this is an example of just that kind of situation.

You can only do so much. A good talk to your sister would be a good place to start, but again, nothing is going to stop it if she does end up blabbing something, and you'll have to face the result of that. In the end, it just comes down to being prepared for it.

Sorry that there's not much we can do to help, but it's the truth, albeit a rather hard one.

[BillxxP]

Thanks Vogue but I dont think I cant just tell her to leave me alone. She'd get all bitchy on me. Any other suggestions?

[IowaBoy]

Tell, your sister to leave you to your own business. She's intruding, and making you feel bad about something you shouldn't.

agreed, she is using it as a shield to get what she wants.

[kdddd]

well do u have anything on her? that u could tell people if she told ??

[IAMWILL]

Rex..... Puberty 101 :arrow2: Family and Friends.

[nnnm]

Pay her off! LOL

[Ballin2much]

do what vouge said. and then imo i would do something stuid and get dirt on her. dont do this though.

[Alfred Pennyworth]

Try and make her believe that it doesn't bother you. I have a 19 year old sister, and I've found out throughout the years, that if she's trying to blackmail you, convincing her that it doesn't bother you, is your best bet. If she thinks that it won't bother you, then she'll probably think that it's worthless trying to blackmail you with it(this is my personal experience, so i'm not saying that it will work). Even if she does tell, take into mind that your parents were teenagers too, and they should understand that it's normal teen behaviour. Stand up to your sister! If your sister thinks it's disgusting, so what! Her opinion is totally different from yours. Don't let her stop you from doing what you usually do because she thinks it's "disgusting". And about your best friend, I'm sure you'll still be able to play with him, after all once again, his dad WAS a teenager and should be fair and realize that hey, your in the middle of puberty!

[Mr. Awesome]

Just tell your sister that you will outright lie and tell you parents that she did something too. Like she felt up a guy or something and she probably has too so you will catch her off guard and she will back down..... hopefully