Oh, A Problem!

[nnnm]

OK, so there is this girl who is like kind of "obsessed" with me. She is completely in love with me, and I think she's pretty cool. However, she is in sixth grade, and I am in eigth grade. I know people are going to say, oh it doesn't matter, but it kinda does, in middle school. When you're older, 2 years is nothing, but what should I do. Should I go out with her or not?

[Rutherford The Brave]

It all depends if you like her and want to love her. You won't mind your age difference. Yet, if you let it get to you, you wont be going out wiht her.

[SnowWolf]

if you like her, go for it. If not, just say im not interested right now, but still be her freind. You must remember that she is much younger, and she doesnt quite know what LOVE really is.,....it might be just a cute crush, not really liking you.

[Rutherford The Brave]

if you like her, go for it. If not, just say im not interested right now, but still be her freind. You must remember that she is much younger, and she doesnt quite know what LOVE really is.,....it might be just a cute crush, not really liking you.

You cannot assume that anyone that is younger than you, does not know what love really is. I do not know what love is, but this couple a year younger than me has been going out since fourth grade, I know they love each other.

[SnowWolf]

You cannot assume that anyone that is younger than you, does not know what love really is. I do not know what love is, but this couple a year younger than me has been going out since fourth grade, I know they love each other.

True, but think about it...shes just a bit young. Plus, dude, your going into hs! and What happens when you meet a girl u like and viceversa there? Are you just going to leave her? probly. Because it will seem a bit sik when shes in 7th grade and your in hs!!!
My friends make fun of this junior guy that im friends with cuz hes dating a 14 yr old. So, its really if u do like her or not.

[Rutherford The Brave]

True, but think about it...shes just a bit young. Plus, dude, your going into hs! and What happens when you meet a girl u like and viceversa there? Are you just going to leave her? probly. Because it will seem a bit sik when shes in 7th grade and your in hs!!!
My friends make fun of this junior guy that im friends with cuz hes dating a 14 yr old. So, its really if u do like her or not.

That I will agree with, it is kind of rediculous when you date people who are significantly younger than you.

[Kahn]

This is the problem with petty elementary relationships. If you want to engage in a real, emotional relationship then go for it. There is no boundary separating you two. It all must come from the heart.

And the fact that you think someone in the 6th grade or anyone in Junior high cannot experience love is kind of absurd. I dated a girl I absolutely adored. The first night I met her we lay under the stars telling each other about ourselves. It was magical. It was emotional. But my stories do not matter much.

Like I said Nick, it must come from the heart. If you really like her or not. Do not ruin your friendship with her if you are not sure.. I have made that mistake before.

[IDGAF]

As long as you like her, ther. Shouldn't b a problem. I'm in highschool, and I know a senior that's dating a sophmore, and it's not a big deal.
If people bother you about it, either tell them to shut up, or say "so where's ur gf?"

[cherry_boi]

umm she's like wat... 11? lmao 11 is way to young to be dating, neither of u cud possibly handle the intense emotions that come with being in a committed intimate relationship

stick to being friends for the time being