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Fourth Dimension
December 14th, 2009, 12:41 AM
well heres my situation i have been lableing myself as bi but more and more lately ive been starting to realize that i may be fully gay but thats not my prob my issue is im afraid to tell my family my aunt(we Are Really Close) She Asked Me about my sexuality ik i can tell her anything but i just couldnt do it i was able to tell here that i went through a "phase" not so much a phase lol so she believes im str8 she is taking my work for it and later if i come out it will be bad cuz i would have broken her trust so thats bad and my other prob is there is this girl who loves me and wants to date and marry me and i tell her i have to think long and hard about it we are bffs now and if i turn her down it will break her heard especialy if im gay i mean she knows im bi but i really lean more twards guys and my attraction to girls keeps shrinking idk what to do about that either and shes always like ur bi u can date me and really if she knew how my mind works its not that easy so idk help

Aspiringanonymous
December 14th, 2009, 03:04 AM
You are questioning; that is perfectly fine. If you feel uncertain, just say so, rather than struggling to formulate a conclusion when the time is not yet ready for one.

Labels should not interfere with the validity of your experiences. Can you see yourself with this girl, all sexuality-related thoughts aside? If so, it never hurts to give it a try. Experimentation is part of the process of questioning and clearing confusion. If not, it is in your best interest to speak honestly that you would rather just be friends.