9:30 P.M... Non- responsive.

[Kahn]

Deleted for personal reasons.

[TheKingDavis]

Sorry just doesnt do much.

But I am sorry, I know the pains of death, im sorry you have to face them, at least your grandfather is at peace.

Be strong.

If you need anything, im a PM away

[daveywavey]

Adam.. There's nothing I can say to make this any better but you know I jus recently lost someone very close to me. But all we can hope this ended his suffering and he's in a better place. You know I'm here and have all my contact info


Love Dave

[Kahn]

His suffering is going to end when he is finished watching my Dad destroy his family...

[TheKingDavis]

His suffering is going to end when he is finished watching my Dad destroy his family...

Please dont be offended by this,

but maybe its time to stop thinking about your dad for a little bit, if even just for a few hours.

Close your bedroom door, if you have anything your grandfather gave you, get it out.

Sit and meditate, remember the life he lived, and how good he was to you.

Remember how much he loved you, and how much you loved him,

its all a part of the grieving process, your dad is making it hard for you tho,
so try to get some alone time

[Kahn]

I only have a birthday card and A note he gave me..

"Adam. You are better to stay here and try to take your father, please leave. Go to your mom. She is the right parent for you. The way he treats you... is not acceptable."

Thats all I want to share on here. I just want to fuckin...

[MacMilker]

adam, we all love you, your an amazing person. you and everyone else dont deserve this. but obviously this wasnt a mistake, it was his time to go, and you have to respect that, whether you think its true or not...your dad seems like a very troubling, unacceptable, stubborn person, but you cant blame any of this on him, its just as bad as saying a bunch of what ifs.

you need to hang in there, your grandfather will always be watching over you making sure you make the right life decisions, and take the right path.

RIP adams' grandfather

[Cloud]

i had a similar thing with my Nan
was visiting her one day she seemed fine and bubbly
next day
we got a call at 4 am
shed died without any deterioration
we spent that morning in the hospital saying goodbye


and dont blame your dad about not seeing him
i slept through my grandads death with the words oyu can see him tomorrow going through my head
i dont blame my mum for that
so dont bother blaming your dad
its not his fault fucksake he didnt want him to die either

death is a bitch
comes at the worse times

[Kahn]

My Dad hasn't spoke seriously to me for 6 months. This is why I blame him.. I am going to try to take my mind off of him though. Sit and remember.

A prayer for me to God.

"Dear God,
I know that I am not the most spiritual person on Earth, but please hear me out. I miss my Grandfather, I miss him so much.. I know there is no chance for me to see him again until I make it to heaven but please.. Will you just give him this message?
Grandpa. I love you. Thank you for all of the help you have given me over these rough times. I know I should let you go but I can't. My new friends are already trying to help. I know you will be watching over me, but I cannot stand to not see you. I will see you soon. I love you Grandpa..."

I don't know if that was the right way to pray. That is why I have posted it here.. I don't know if it will do any good at all but all of my heart hopes he will get that message...

[My_Toes_Are_Cold]

Just think about how great of a life your grandfather had, and think about all you gained from his life.

Frustration leads to anger, anger leads to hate, and hate leads to the Dark Side... Wait, wrong forum.

The longer you feel frustrated about his death, the longer you will be depressed. The longer you are angry towards the father, the more you be upset about your grandfather's death. I didn't even know my grandfathers; one died before I was born and the other I only met once. Be glad that you even knew your grandfather so well and had someone so important in your life.

We're all gonna die, so why cry when someone does? That's my philosophy. Just be happy you knew them and remember the good times.

[daveywavey]

Toes that response is kind of sideways but I can see where you're getting at

[Asylum]

i am so sorry this happened to you. i know how you are feeling. the same thing happened to my great grandmother. she was fine. my grandparents told us to come up and see her once more, they didn't think she was going to make it. Dad said no.... she got worse and worse and suffered until she died. i know it's hard to accept. but hey they are in a better place. they are happy now, and they are still with you watching over you. things may be bad now, but thye will get better