Im a bit scared...

[SnowWolf]

So i have met this guy online. He added me on FB becasue i knew some of his friends. We have been texting and messaging each other for about 3 weeks now. He always asks me how my day was, and tells me good night, and he seems sincerely sweet! He wants to meet up. I was talking to my other friends (guys) that know him very well, and they have said that hes an awsome dude. And i think that we should all meet up with our friends and mutual friends so that it does not become akward. I just dont know how i should tell him that we should meet in a group...i dont want to seem scared and pathetic. I know that he wants to meet me and gradually build up our relationship, and date later on. I told him that for us to meet up he is gonna hav to wait until aftetr christmas b/c i am flying out of the country, and all he said was "then i will wait till then :)".
Im just freaked out that he may not like me or vice versa...and i dont know what to do. Suggestions, comments, opinions anyone? :what:

[feelingthis182]

i think you should just see how it plays out and if he doesnt like you its his lose but if he does thenthats good

[2D]

Just say you want to meet up in a group. I'm pretty sure he will understand. Shoot, you can even say you want a group so it won't get awkward. I'm pretty sure he likes you too. I only say goodnight and how was your day to my longest friends and a hypothetical girlfriend. <3

[SnowWolf]

Just say you want to meet up in a group. I'm pretty sure he will understand. Shoot, you can even say you want a group so it won't get awkward. I'm pretty sure he likes you too. I only say goodnight and how was your day to my longest friends and a hypothetical girlfriend. <3

Aww, yay! seriously, i think that helped a bit more!!! thanks! :D

[2D]

No problem. <3

[Asylum]

i agree with motormouth

[Art_dude]

Pretty much ditto to what motormouth said. Tell him it would be fun to meet with a group of friends. I'm pretty sure he won't question that, but if he does just be honest and tell him that you think it would be best to get to know him as a friend first. I don't see how anybody would read that as, 'scared or pathetic.' You barely know the guy. I would like to at least get in a couple of group dates to see if I like the person and know they're not some psycho murderer.

When you meet someone online like that, (or if you meet anybody through a friend for that matter), it's always best to go with a group of friends upon the first few get-togethers. That way you get to know him/her on a more friendly basis before jumping into dating, plus if the chemistry doesn't flow in real life like it did online, you don't have to be stuck alone with him in a restaurant for an hour.

[SnowWolf]

plus if the chemistry doesn't flow in real life like it did online, you don't have to be stuck alone with him in a restaurant for an hour.

Good point!