One-upped my friend.

[Jazbo]

Ok, I broke EVERY rule of dating your friend's ex now. I feel terrible, but hey, I was the better man.

Story is this: I just recently got together with my friend's ex-girlfriend, he dated her a week, I've been with her... maybe about a week now. First thing is: I have dated this man's ex-girlfriend, rule break 1.

Second, this girl is really (was...) closed in. 17, never been kissed, virgin, etc. whole deal, innocent as anything, and I love it. Anyway, my friend NEVER kissed her... in his whole week of dating her. HOWEVER, date 2 for me, I did make out with her. Second thing is: Gotten further with man's ex-girlfriend, rule break numbers 2-9.

He's recently discovered this and is boiling with jealousy. He is trying to rationalize it by saying he got her ready for me, etc... but I am laughing really hard at the situation. I feel so terrible... but is it so bad to be... good?

I don't think so... you can all weigh in, but I still think this is comical and almost embarrassing. I feel like such a jerk, and yet I feel oh so accomplished. What a weird night... what a weird relationship.

[kolte]

Well, I would have been pissed at you personally.
But I'm a bitter bastard.
and I'm bitchy to everyone regardless of rules they have broken etc.
acutally, I don't really talk much.
I just nod and glare, and sometimes smile.
such fun.
but yeah, your in the clear because he hasnt decked you.
but I would have started some shit.
but yeah, the better man one.
end of story.

[Oath]

OK. Well My friend kinda did this to me at first. Except im a girl and she went out w. my ex-boyfriend. I was ok w. it at first but then i just kinda got a little depressed i guess. I never got mad, but i was more disappointed then anything. I never though they would do that to me. And she didnt really ask me if it was ok that she went out w. him? did u ask ur friend? Well wen they were goin out she asked me if i was alright w. it i sed it was ok but then i relized that i didnt really want them to go out and "ya know"..Im over it now and weve all moved on. but ill never forget the day i heard they made-out and i only got one little kiss from him wen we went out b4.
Ur friends prob just really really jealous that u got more action then he did. lol. but anyways he will get over it and duh! hes gonna move on. so dont get all sad about it. and relax and enjoy ur time w. her. and maybe u could help him find another girl so hes not thinking about u n his ex...

[ScotsGirl]

How are things going with you and your girl Jazbo? :D

Id have to agree that it is a rule you shouldnt break...
Although, from what youre saying, your friend seems to be more jealous of you and how far you got with this girl, than of the fact that it is actually his ex who you are going out with :?
Has he ever said how much he actually liked her?
You dont have to answer if you dont want to! :)

Anyway, I hope things go well for you! :D

xxx

[Confused Posh Boy]

You arsehole how dare you laugh at your friend, how can you call him your friend. I have recently got with my best friends ex-girlfriend but we have history and we have had feelings for each other for months. I wouldnt dream of laughing at him i respect my friends, fare enough i can see 'the best man won' part of your argument that might be true and you might be better suited to each other but dont laugh at your friend.

[BrunetteBaby1131]

I don't think there is anything wrong with what you're doing.
I mean, your friend only dated her for a week.
How serious could it have been?
If you like her, then HE should be cool with it.
YOU should be able to go for what makes you happy.
But that's just my opinion