so depressed

[northskater110]

tomorrows mi b day and im depressed. idk y. i just feel like i have no purpose here, u no, that kind of shit. i just dont feel myself. even watching dane cook couldn't help me. help plz

[LIsailer19]

well, on a scale of 1-10, how depressed are u? A few years ago, i became really depressed. i'm not entirley sure what got me out of it but i asked my self what i had to be depressed about (i came up with nothing). that kinda helped. i also kinda just tried to keep my mind on things that make me happy (music, comedy, etc...). having something to look foward to helps also (concert, sporting event, a date, etc...). try to interact with other people who make u happy. well good luck and happy b-day. :D

[kolte]

well just remember that this isnt even really your life.
its your parents.
you have like, 60 years of life after you move out.
thats your time.
just remember how much is in front of you.
you can mold your life anyway you want to.
these few years are just a precurser of what you will experience.
have fun.

[Sapphire]

First of all Happy Birthday :) Hope it went well and you got some nice pressies.
Yea I know what you mean, I actually experienced the exact samething in February. Sorry, I have no cure for it though. All I can say is just try your best to get through each day and make it a game that you pick out one of two or three good things each day. For example, today I sat under a tree and ate some stawberries (my fave fruit) the sun was shining and the birds were chirping. It hasn't stopped me being depressed, but its made today a bit more bearable. :) Hope it all goes well for you. Dont worry too much. Hang in there and youll come out the other side :)

[Activate]

Yea happy birthday. If I was able to legally get your address I would send you a Bday card :) I might just email you something :P

[Aηdy]

You have got to ask yourself, why, why am i depressed.. then if you come up with nothing.. perhaps try and spend some more time with friends and family for a few days to try and cheer up.. however if you do find an answer to why you are depressed.. try and think if you can right it.. sorry im not much help with this...

i hope you had a great birthday! how old are you now?

remember, your frineds and family love you. plus, your still n your teens, life has in no way really started yet, life begns when you get a job, live in your own house, bring up a family...

[TeenInNeed]

I can relate to you, as I seem to be always depressed, I hide behind a mask when I'm around friends.... ( The sad thing is I really don't have all that many friends, because it seems like no matter what I do I'm pushed away). What I'm still confused over is why everytime i see one of my friends looking depressed, they wont even talk to me... I care about my friends, but they don't seem to care about me. I was at my friends house today, and I was depressed, even trying to look depressed to even see if my friends cared about me to even ask what's wrong... no one asked or anything. I'm an outcast at school and I don't even know what i did to make people hate me so much... I'm cast away because I'm smart is what it seems like. In band if i do good on a chair test I'm called a show-off. If I do good on a test i'm called a nerd/geek/queer(no clue where that comes from but thats what im called). Atleast put on a mask for your birthday you might be depressed, but it doesn't hurt to put it behind the mask as everyone does. You don't want people to be mad at you for throwing you a birthday party and you looking like you'd rather be asleep then at it. Put on the mask for your birthday, If you ever need anyone to talk to about your problem's feel free to pm me I like to care for people, but they just don't care that i give a shit and I'm not an ass... It doesn't even have to be a close friend, I just like to help people, yet im always shoved away... It makes me feel unwanted...

[northskater110]

im 14......... still depressed tho. level 8 on depression scale..........