best friend school problem

[jocklin]

my best friend named sean asked me if i wanet to j/o with him and i told him yes and we did j/o but now it seems like he's adicted to doing it in school somewere were we can get caught how do i tell him no>?ps:sean asked yeaterday if i wanted to do it again and wen i told him i was bi he says ok and he gets on his knee's and starts sucking me off!!! it felt good but i couldnt tell him to stop and we did it again today how do i tel him i dont like as an bf>?:yeah:

[ray8806]

Wow man, yo have one BIG problem.

Well, to tell him 'no' you don't want to j/o in school where you two could get caught, say something like this.

"Dude, I don't mind if we j/o together, HOWEVER I do mind where we do. I mean, at school? I might could see once in a semi-year period or something at school but not all the time. It's too easy for someone to catch us and I don't feel like getting grounded so we can j/o together at all.

Make sure say "Dude" and "man" or something like that. It helps to get your point across when talking to another guy. IDK why, but it does.

For the, you don't want to be his boyfriend thing say:

Alright man, I need to talk to you." *Go somewhere to talk*. "I don't know how to say this but, we are all ready good friends. I do not want to screw that up with a relationship between us two. I mean, I don't mind if we have a little fun once in a while, but not as a couple. Only as friends, okay?

The most important thing here, and especially on the second one, is to be HONEST! Just tell him how you feel.

[dwindala]

Wow man, yo have one BIG problem.

Well, to tell him 'no' you don't want to j/o in school where you two could get caught, say something like this.

"Dude, I don't mind if we j/o together, HOWEVER I do mind where we do. I mean, at school? I might could see once in a semi-year period or something at school but not all the time. It's too easy for someone to catch us and I don't feel like getting grounded so we can j/o together at all.

Make sure say "Dude" and "man" or something like that. It helps to get your point across when talking to another guy. IDK why, but it does.

For the, you don't want to be his boyfriend thing say:

Alright man, I need to talk to you." *Go somewhere to talk*. "I don't know how to say this but, we are all ready good friends. I do not want to screw that up with a relationship between us two. I mean, I don't mind if we have a little fun once in a while, but not as a couple. Only as friends, okay?

The most important thing here, and especially on the second one, is to be HONEST! Just tell him how you feel.

Couldn't agree more!

[iceyfresh]

Look you just gota to tell him your getting uncomfortable and take it from there

[Jdan360]

I would love to be in this situation!!
But at school is too risky!

[Giles]

Tell him that you want to do this, but you don't want to do it in school or anywhere that you can get caught.
Make sure this doesn't break your friendship though.

[ACQD139F83J]

just be honest and don't let him manipulate you

[thrust of trust]

its seems he wants the whole kitchen instead of just a snack. just talk to him is all.

[Obscene Eyedeas]

Just be honest and as soon as possible. If you let this drag out it could make things more complicated i gt from ur post that hes a reale gd friend nd d sooner u sort this out the better for ur friendship. Cherish ur friendship a good friend is hard to come by and if hes a really gd friend hell understand

[Weather]

U got a HUGE problem

[Jordan...14]

i'm sorry but i find that so hard to believe, however if it is true then stand your ground

[IAMWILL]

I believe it. Guys please don't post unless your going to contribute to the thread. (as in no "I agree" or "that sucks".

Moving to.... Meh I'll keep it here it's fine.

Talk to him when you're not doing what you're doing, because then you won't have any mega-hormone influences to make a stupid decision.
It's like driving drunk, you never make a good decision.
Talking while horny = decsion that sounds good then and isn't good later.

[HikaruTheHunter]

Yeah dude. Maybe you should break it to him slowly. Like first tell him before you do any other pre-arranged events, and say that you don't exactly like him as a boyfriend. If he doesn't take it, he's just there for his own entertainment. You can't let him manipulate you.

[JackOfClubs]

Talk to him. Tell him that you don't want to be doing it all the time, and that he needs to give it a rest. Tell him politely of course, you don't want to damage your friendship.

[KidImage]

Wow man, yo have one BIG problem.

Well, to tell him 'no' you don't want to j/o in school where you two could get caught, say something like this.

"Dude, I don't mind if we j/o together, HOWEVER I do mind where we do. I mean, at school? I might could see once in a semi-year period or something at school but not all the time. It's too easy for someone to catch us and I don't feel like getting grounded so we can j/o together at all.

Make sure say "Dude" and "man" or something like that. It helps to get your point across when talking to another guy. IDK why, but it does.

For the, you don't want to be his boyfriend thing say:

Alright man, I need to talk to you." *Go somewhere to talk*. "I don't know how to say this but, we are all ready good friends. I do not want to screw that up with a relationship between us two. I mean, I don't mind if we have a little fun once in a while, but not as a couple. Only as friends, okay?

The most important thing here, and especially on the second one, is to be HONEST! Just tell him how you feel.

yeah i totally agree but man your in a pickle

[MusicallyObsessedBoi]

Just tell him you don't like him like that. Although, that could lead to heartbreak. It could be that he likes you like that. Next time he asks, just say no. If he asks why, just say you don't feel like it at the moment. And if he asks what moment you will feel like it, jokingly call him a dumbass and walk away.