I realize that..

[EdHennessy]

I realize that I could take the time to read those stickys about "THIS MIGHT ANSWER YOUR QUESTION!" but I don't want to take the time. I need someone to listen and I need it now. I've always been unsure since the fifth grade or sixth grade or so. I'm sexually and physically attracted to men but at the same time, I'm physically and emotionally attracted to women. At least I think that's how it is. I don't see myself with a man, but that's just me. I don't know if my masturbation to homosexual material is a phase or what, but I really am fucking sick of waiting for the past 4 years (I'm a freshman in high school). What can I do? How do I ease my mind? Someone help.

[Skeletal-Chic]

I was in the exact same position as you a few months ago. I just realized I was Bi and have never looked back! Embrace yourself. For me, having a definition for who I was made me have more confidence in myself and my sexuality, though I know some people will disagree.

[Aspiringanonymous]

I don't know if my masturbation to homosexual material is a phase or what, but I really am fucking sick of waiting for the past 4 years
Waiting for what? Clarity of mind?

All confusion will subside at some point in time, when it is ready to do so. Deliberately posing questions upon an immense tangle of existing questions will not help lessen the chaos.

Whether or not your experiences constitute a 'phase' is irrelevant. In the here and now, they are a reality to you, and therefore it is in your best interest to acknowledge them. Certainly as a developing person, the possibility of change within the near future is present, but that does not make your feelings in this moment any less valid and genuine.

Be open to the experience of confusion and uncertainty. It does not have to be so distressing.

[Don3]

then your bi....i think

[ryanmichael]

sleep with a guy

[TheKingDavis]

sleep with a guy

Experiment sounds so much less slutty