well i was bi...

[Kinetic]

after dating about 5 girls ive noticed something... i think im gay :P

i'm like not attracted to them at all, any of them id kiss and id realize that i just don't feel anything... i mean they can sometimes get me horny but they have to be doing extreme sexual stuff. However when it comes down to guys im like crazy lol emotionally n all. so now ive come to think, am i gay?

[Krazymitch]

i was in the same position not long ago. i finally figured it out i like guys. nothing anyone can say will tell you if your gay or not, it basically something you have to figure out. start asking yourself questions such as "would i ever have sex with another guy?" stuff like that, if ur answer is something like "EWW NO!" then i dont think ur gay, if it is "yes that will be good" then u are probably gay or bi at the least. hope that helps

[Kinetic]

well ive had sex with both... :P

[Krazymitch]

if thats that case. then did you absolutly love having sex with a male? or the other way around... if you are not turned on by a hot girl wearing nothing, but you are turned on by a guy wearing nothing, well that is pretty self explanetry. . . and you say you dont feel anything when u kiss them, maybe they just arent the right person?. once again you are the only one who can truly figure this out, people can give you advice, but in the end YOU will have to figure it out

[Stewart]

I. AM. IN. THE. EXACTLY. THE. SAME. SITUATION.

Seriously, I am.

I've dated 4 girls and when I date them...I feel nothing...I don't want to make out with them or do stuff, but I'm still turned on by girl porn.

I think I'm gay, but...I just don't know..

[Kinetic]

I. AM. IN. THE. EXACTLY. THE. SAME. SITUATION.

Seriously, I am.

I've dated 4 girls and when I date them...I feel nothing...I don't want to make out with them or do stuff, but I'm still turned on by girl porn.

I think I'm gay, but...I just don't know..

yeah idk id rather make out with a guy than with a girl but i feel better with a girl rather than a guy

bla bla i know its my decision in the end but hell,>.<

[Krazymitch]

"id rather make out with a guy than with a girl but i feel better with a girl rather than a guy" tht confuses the hell outa me, but i understand in some strange way lolol...
look the EXACT same thing happened to me, all i could do is wait. it eventually worked its self out.

[Kinetic]

ehh alrite ill wait :P

[Krazymitch]

good luck..it took me 2 years

[Kinetic]

lmao~

emotional journey time...

[OstrichAficionado]

"id rather make out with a guy than with a girl but i feel better with a girl rather than a guy" tht confuses the hell outa me, but i understand in some strange way lolol...
look the EXACT same thing happened to me, all i could do is wait. it eventually worked its self out.

Maybe he means that he's more comfortable with a girl because of some homophobic factor in his life?

[Fruit_Tart.]

yeah idk id rather make out with a guy than with a girl but i feel better with a girl rather than a guy

bla bla i know its my decision in the end but hell,>.<

ya same here. i like making out with guys but i rather be with a girl in public. n my parents dont know im bi!! ha lol.
N anyway i should chose who i want to date so there. :D

[woody92]

i have had the same problem coz untill two weeks ago i had a gf and i wasnt happy but i thought i was bi, and i wasnt really arroused by her... yet i now have a bf "online" and when ever i talk to him or see a vid of him, i get really arroused. lol
i dont understand neither lol

[Fruit_Tart.]

^ Well you probably more into guys then. i'm sorta equally leveled. i have an online bf too. n im always horny so thats no help! LOL :)). N you stole my name you should give it back. jk jk.

[Kinetic]

Maybe he means that he's more comfortable with a girl because of some homophobic factor in his life?

well lets see... my dads dad was a preacher and his mom his like the mother of bibles... and my moms parents were holy but not as... Strict.. all my cousins have either gone to college and got married bla bla bla... i always hear the whole.. OMG bobby when u have kids there gona be soo cute!!! bla bla whos ur girlfriend?!?! bla bla

[hiker1992]

I know what you mean. I literally am not aroused by women at all. Like... anything about them. If I'm watching porn and it's just one woman, or two women, or even a huge orgy, I literally just don't feel turned on in the slightest. However, when it comes to men... that's a different story.

[Krazymitch]

hmm...yeah tell me about it.. there is nothing about a gurl that turns me on. but when it comes to guys, well ya know