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franky boy
December 10th, 2009, 09:15 PM
ok so , i had....a small...well huge damn problem tonnight , i couldn't get a f*****ing errection with my gf , i mean , we've done it 3 times before but each time ... i feel like im fighting to get and keep an errection , i cant bear it anymore i feel like shit and my gf thinks its her fault ...cause she has no experience ..though i have to admit she's not...well good at getting me hard , she keep saying tell me what to do , but ... well i dunno , but the more she says it the more it gets me...feeling little inside i dunno


HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPP :confused::(:(:(

constance
December 10th, 2009, 09:21 PM
Erection can be controlled mentally
If your strong with your thoughts, you should have no problems
maybe you're just too nervous
relax and enjoy keep your mind off of keeping it

franky boy
December 10th, 2009, 09:27 PM
Erection can be controlled mentally
If your strong with your thoughts, you should have no problems
maybe you're just too nervous
relax and enjoy keep your mind off of keeping it

i try to do it but it doesnt happen , it just doesnt

constance
December 10th, 2009, 09:32 PM
http://kidney.niddk.nih.gov/kudiseases/pubs/ed_ez/index.htm

this might help?

franky boy
December 10th, 2009, 09:41 PM
wel...not really

NMon
December 10th, 2009, 10:14 PM
Stop and think.... what have you been doing, thinking, eating, etc. differently now than you were before? Any major changes?

franky boy
December 11th, 2009, 06:36 PM
Stop and think.... what have you been doing, thinking, eating, etc. differently now than you were before? Any major changes?

nothing major ...well nothing i remeber of thats for sure

TheTruth
December 11th, 2009, 07:05 PM
It could be that without realising there are other problems at the back of your mind that your worryin or stressing over without knowing, or maybe you are nervous, I think you should just talk to her and be open with each other about what turns you on and try different things just don'e be embarrassed about it.

Giles
December 11th, 2009, 07:16 PM
Relax and think about what you're doing.
Your about/having sex with an attractive girl.
That should help keep you erect.

XxHaViiK
December 11th, 2009, 09:31 PM
Try foreplay (making out, rubbing, etc.) for a while. That can get you aroused a lot easier. I know I can't just jump right into anything, it takes me about an hour to get fully aroused.

franky boy
December 11th, 2009, 10:06 PM
Try foreplay (making out, rubbing, etc.) for a while. That can get you aroused a lot easier. I know I can't just jump right into anything, it takes me about an hour to get fully aroused.

oh well , i...dont wanna be mean but my gf is not quite good for ..rubbing :(

XxHaViiK
December 11th, 2009, 10:09 PM
oh well , i...dont wanna be mean but my gf is not quite good for ..rubbing :(

Don't be embarrassed to tell her how to do it. Having sex is about making each other happy. Tell her how to angle her hips, or whatever makes you happy, and vice verse.

If it makes you feel better, my GF told me how to do everything... I mean EVERYTHING. I just knew I had to insert and thrust, that's it. But I also had to tell her how to do everything. Eventually, sex gets really fun once you both know what to do.

franky boy
December 11th, 2009, 10:40 PM
Don't be embarrassed to tell her how to do it. Having sex is about making each other happy. Tell her how to angle her hips, or whatever makes you happy, and vice verse.

If it makes you feel better, my GF told me how to do everything... I mean EVERYTHING. I just knew I had to insert and thrust, that's it. But I also had to tell her how to do everything. Eventually, sex gets really fun once you both know what to do.

hey thanks dude :P i kinda figured out why i didnt get a bonner , well if you wanna know or if you care of XD i've been non stop working all week , i was stressed because i was thinking ''oh fuck i'll be fighting for a bonner again'' but i thought normal guys should get a bonner Reeeeaaaalll quick so...more pressure , plus the fact that she doesnt know what to do made me even more insecure so ...all that combined and you get well...nothing XD

kenshin8106
December 12th, 2009, 12:40 AM
where theres erectile disfunction to take into par as well, can you stay hard if your just jacking off or so? maybe your not attracted to her and it just..your not attracted,

franky boy
December 12th, 2009, 01:02 AM
where theres erectile disfunction to take into par as well, can you stay hard if your just jacking off or so? maybe your not attracted to her and it just..your not attracted,

yea i can stay hard when i jack off , freaking easily , and yes i am attracted by her , alot