Humm...Masturbating

[SnyderBaby97]

Okay.. SO yeah, I masturbate. Urrg! I have for a year, but I can't reach an orgasm... help?

[Wonders]

Well... how old are you?... It depends. I started when i was eleven or twelve. you just have to keep going. try some lube and if you can't get your hands on some that's real, try using lotion or Vaseline... but Vaseline can get pretty messy unless you going to take a shower when your done...

[SnyderBaby97]

Well.i'm almost thirteen. I started at 11. Can't lotion hurt me?

[Wonders]

Well.. HAHA! i didnt look at our name until now!... i see you a girl and thats different story, if thats the case... you shouldn't need anything, and for girls to orgasm it takes a lot longer than guys... haha sry for the mixup! It may take awhile... haha...

[Rutherford The Brave]

Some girls just cannot orgasm and for others its really hard.

[SnyderBaby97]

LMFAO.. it's okay.. and thanks(;

[MandaMass]

if you aren't already, try stimulating the clitoris and using finger or object penetration at the same time. music often helps as well. with your finger you can find your g-spot which is a major help too. hope you get it =)

[Rebecca L Vaughn]

Just have patients and keep going.

[itzyogrll]

Well.. HAHA! i didnt look at our name until now!... i see you a girl and thats different story, if thats the case... you shouldn't need anything, and for girls to orgasm it takes a lot longer than guys... haha sry for the mixup! It may take awhile... haha...

It says puberty for girls? Why on earth would you think she was otherwise unless she didn't say so? Lol.

[Englishrose]

You need to find a technique that suits you. Not all techniques are going to make you feel good. There are a lot of different techniques out there and you should experiment. Once you find a technique that makes you feel good, you can start experimenting with a certain technique, for example different positions and the likes. Only you can know what feels good.