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ViciousScheme
December 8th, 2009, 09:17 PM
Hey guys. So my girlfriend is kind of suggesting we have sex. Im not sure, because my other friend tells me she felt alot of remorse and it made her feel like a slut. Where on the other hand, my current girlfriend is telling me she thinks its really enjoyable. I cant decide which is more accurate!! How did you feel after you had sex? Like guilty? It isnt the actual act im worried about, just what I might feel after wards, so im calling on you guys. Thanks in advance.
Rutherford The Brave
December 8th, 2009, 09:45 PM
Sex for me was a very passionate thing. I loved my partner and I was sharing something very important with her. The only way you should feel remorse for having sex is when you do not love the person. If you love your girlfriend have some god damn sex. Don't worry about it, you'll love it.
Art_dude
December 8th, 2009, 11:25 PM
Pretty much ditto to what Gregory said. There's nothing to feel remorse about if you feel your ready and took the proper precautions. I personally don't believe you have to be in love to have sex. I think sex is a recreational activity amongst two consenting individuals in a somewhat serious relationship. I'm not saying it's o.k. to randomly fuck the next stranger you see, but you don't need to be in love with the person. If that were the case, than most people would die virgins: love is damn hard to find. Sex is passionate and at its most basic level a physical pleasure. You're penis is hardwired to enjoy it. So enjoy it already lol
If you AND your partner feel you're both ready to have sex, and handle the responsibility that comes along with it then be my guest.
2D
December 9th, 2009, 10:06 PM
Did I feel remorse? No. Did I feel like an idiot and an asshole? Forsure. Just make sure you're both 100% ready to and that you can handle the consequences before you do it though.
allsoulsareblack
December 13th, 2009, 07:11 PM
save ure v for someone specil i didnt and it was wasted think carfully bout it
greg95
December 14th, 2009, 05:25 PM
Hey guys. So my girlfriend is kind of suggesting we have sex. Im not sure, because my other friend tells me she felt alot of remorse and it made her feel like a slut. Where on the other hand, my current girlfriend is telling me she thinks its really enjoyable. I cant decide which is more accurate!! How did you feel after you had sex? Like guilty? It isnt the actual act im worried about, just what I might feel after wards, so im calling on you guys. Thanks in advance.
me not guilty at all. as long as both of u are sure u want to do it, and u take ur time, and u go gently, and make sure she doesn't hurt, it should be fine
Kitty Purry
December 30th, 2009, 12:15 PM
For me i just had sex for the first time recently. I wanted to do it . But after i felt like a jerk. Like she wasnt redy and i was suggesting we do and she did not want to do it. But did it for me.
nick
December 30th, 2009, 12:37 PM
Hey guys. So my girlfriend is kind of suggesting we have sex. Im not sure, because my other friend tells me she felt alot of remorse and it made her feel like a slut. Where on the other hand, my current girlfriend is telling me she thinks its really enjoyable. I cant decide which is more accurate!! How did you feel after you had sex? Like guilty? It isnt the actual act im worried about, just what I might feel after wards, so im calling on you guys. Thanks in advance.
If you need to ask it suggests to me that you're not really ready for it or convinced about it.
BlackenedSilver
December 30th, 2009, 12:50 PM
Sex for me was a very passionate thing. I loved my partner and I was sharing something very important with her. The only way you should feel remorse for having sex is when you do not love the person. If you love your girlfriend have some god damn sex. Don't worry about it, you'll love it.
Agreed with Greg totally.
I'm not sure if you will feel remorse though, I didn't but then the times I've had sex I wasn't in a relationship and at the time I didn't love the guy.
If you need to ask it suggests to me that you're not really ready for it or convinced about it.
Again agreed with Nick.. What you need to do is think over how you feel for her and if sex is what you really want, if it's not what you want then of course you're going to regret it afterwards. Hope it all goes well ^^
KaelKaos
December 30th, 2009, 01:24 PM
Make sure you're 100 percent ready. And also make sure that your decision to have sex (or not) is entirely based on what you want, not what she wants.
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