Who you are or something you do?

[Sanctuary94]

Do you think your sexuality is part of who you are or something that you do? For example, someone may play basketball but that doesn't mean that defines them. Yeah, I realize sexuality and sports are different. :P lol

[Bougainvillea]

Well, it's something you're born with. A personal preference. I think it's apart of who you are, and part of what defines you.

[Jacob1993]

Do you think your sexuality is part of who you are or something that you do? For example, someone may play basketball but that doesn't mean that defines them. Yeah, I realize sexuality and sports are different. :P lol

I definitely believe it is a part of who you are and not just something that you do.
Your sexuality is a big part of who you are as a person and helps make/shape who you are. Sexuality is definitely not just something that you do.
Speaking for myself, it helps define who I am and is a very big part of why I am Me. (If this sounds rambling, its because its late and I should be asleep already lol )

[Aspiringanonymous]

Something that I do. A feature, not a nature. I struggle with identifying anything pertaining to existence as a physical form with my 'true nature', whatever that may be, and this is no different.

Sexuality has always been more or less of a non-issue to me, on the other hand. I never quite understood why people make such a big deal about it. You experience attraction for another that is not of the opposite sex, so? It is what it is. Thinking in terms of definitive labels and boundaries is never a fully accurate reflection of what is.

[hardcore-smile]

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[Mal]

Being attracted to them is nature, acting on it is choice. That's probably not very helpful...

[ryanmichael]

in my opinion everything u do is apart of ur deffinition like im a basketball soccer playing bisexaul photographer who lost his virginity when he was twelve