oh dear...

[itzyogrll]

:(in the Bible And to God is it considered losing your virginity Or having sex by preforming a blowjob?


I hope and pray it's not.. :confused:

[nick]

I dont think there's very much in the bible on the subject of oral sex.

Opinions vary, but as far as I'm concerned as a girl you remain a virgin until you have "full sex", ie. get laid.

[sweetmisery]

No, well as far as I know, - there would have to be penetration and "the spreading of the seed" (not in your mouth) to be losing your virginity.

But I could be wrong -shrug-

[enzenzz]

I think the bible prefers that you do not engage in any sexual activity before marriage.

[itzyogrll]

I think i might cry.. I'm praying.. That i still have my innocence..

[Grinchilla]

In the spirit of the Bible, the Bible is certainly not in favor of it.
But, Jesus said one who lusts is an adulterer (i.e. not a virgin).

Everyone sins. You can be forgiven.

[Ghosthustler]

I think i might cry.. I'm praying.. That i still have my innocence..

Well, It differs from religion. It depends on which you practice. Though, why care if you're just going to commit in various sexual acts whilst being ignorant to your own beliefs? o:

[itzyogrll]

I Know i can be forgiven but, i don't want to have done anything wrong.. So, did i loose my virginity in God's eyes?

[Grinchilla]

Think of it like this: if you didn't feel like you were losing your virginity in God's eyes at the time of the blowjob... it's irrevelant whether you really did lose your virgnity in God's eyes. Because you didn't do it on purpose. See... if you un-knowingly kill someone... are you a murderer? Of course not. Same deal as your situation. I don't think the "compassionate" God of Christians would see it as losing your virginity.

So many interpretations of the Bible. Many opinions on this subject. Sorry I can't help you more. Maybe someone of your specific denomination/beliefs could help you more.

[itzyogrll]

Thank you.. There is hope then.

[nick]

In the spirit of the Bible, the Bible is certainly not in favor of it.
Please quote chapter and verse where there is a reference to oral sex, I don't claim to have read the whole bible, but I've been to two church services every week since a very young age and dont recall it ever cropping up in the readings.


But, Jesus said one who lusts is an adulterer (i.e. not a virgin).

Chapter and verse again please. Jesus said "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone", a rather different message I think.

Kate, I can tell this matters to you. You are still a virgin, there is no doubt about that, you will remain a virgin until you let a guy put his penis into your vagina. I don't think there are any references in the bible to oral sex, although there are to masturbation and/or to "early withdrawl". Most of these bible references are from the Old Testament or from St. Paul, they are not from the teachings of Christ. Never confuse the rulings of priests, who throughout history have seemed to think its their job to repress people, with the thoughts of God.