help needed very confused

[mklightning1]

ok im kind of worrid about some things in my life the main one being am i gay or not.
i dont wont to be gay it kind of makes me fell depressed when i think about it but i cant help these feelings i get when i see a nice boy (man) is this just a phase and is this normall, i mean ive had relationships with girls during and ever since school yes like every other relationships it has its ups and downs im i having these feelings cos these have all gon wrong i had been hurt by so many and im just rejecting um is this just a rebound or am i really turning gay
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[kolte]

I would try not to think about it.
maybe you are maybe your arent.
only you can really answer that.
but you don't have to know.
give it time.
you WILL know when your 20.
but now, things are changing so much that its hard to tell.
your experiencing all these feelings.
If you wanna chat:

[email protected]

I can help you if you need more advice.

[Confused Posh Boy]

Look dont worry about it, many boys have these feelings about other boys not all but many, what you must remember is it is a sexual preference thats all it is its ok to have relationships and fantacies of both just dont fall in to the same trap as me of falling in love with a girl getting rejected and then falling for a guy and then to find that the girl really does like you and you find yourself with feelings for both people who both have feelings for you. i know what my prefrence is I am Bi/hetrosexual so my preference is girls and i am in love with this girl but i understand that you dont know what you are, just remember its ok to like both its a prefrence and what ever you prefer is your business and aslong as you become comfortable in your sexuality then you will be fine.

Good Luck mate i found my prefrence you will, i dont know when but you will.