i wish i was a girl..

[obsessedwithmyself]

why why why? i hate being a man but i like girls i wana be lesbian girl

[Kahn]

Thats.. odd?

[budd55]

why do you hate being a man?

[Rutherford The Brave]

Yeah right, being a girl is alot of work. You'd probably break.

[XxHaViiK]

Trust me, when my GF was here, she seemed like she was going through a lot more then I ever had. You should enjoy being a guy, it's almost kind of a blessing. We don't have menstrual (spelled correctly?) cycles, cramps, pains, or things like that on a regular basis.

[icanlie]

girls go through way too much drama, somthing no one wants

[itzyogrll]

It's true.. Think this over.. Are you really sure? Being a girl is only good to us because we're use to it. We go through a bunch. Not fun.

[Rutherford The Brave]

You don't want to be a girl, Girls go through so much. Thats why they deserve more respect.

[laurita_21]

You don't want to be a girl, Girls go through so much. Thats why they deserve more respect.

yes we do :D

trust me. you don't want to be a girl. We go through way more than guys can imagine, only if our a girl you could understand :)

feel lucky your a guy :yes:

[Sage]

You know, in Japan, they made something similar to a stress ball that looks and feels like a boob. You could just settle for buying two of those.

[ShatteredWings]

Yeah right, being a girl is alot of work. You'd probably break.
Maybe that what the OP wants...
Trust me, when my GF was here, she seemed like she was going through a lot more then I ever had. You should enjoy being a guy, it's almost kind of a blessing. We don't have menstrual (spelled correctly?) cycles, cramps, pains, or things like that on a regular basis.
So?
You do realize SRS doesn't give women a utrus right?
girls go through way too much drama, somthing no one wants
Orly?
You know, in Japan, they made something similar to a stress ball that looks and feels like a boob. You could just settle for buying two of those.
in a different context, that would be funny.
General statement..Stop bashing.
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Really. It's not funny to be telling someone they're not supposed to think one way or another because it's "different".



OP, i'm not going to bombard you with questions (eh, I understand the gender identity thing... It works both ways), but I am curious to know one thing.
Do you just dislike how men are expected to be (gender roles), or do you hate your body, and being male (gender identity)?

There is a difference, and I'm not belittling your statement whatsoever, but your original post is rather vague.

Anyway, you might want to start looking into what kind of things you can do about transitioning. Don't know how old you are (can't get surgery before you're 18, and even then it's not too likely) but know what you're eventually getting in to.

feel free to PM me if you want to talk a little more

[DarkWingedAngel]

why why why? i hate being a man but i like girls i wana be lesbian girl
lets trade places(im joking)
anyways
i know how it feels
but why do you hate it, i mean girls have drama, are life's get WAY more complicated then guys, and theres more that im not gonna explain. Why do you want drama and all that biz?

[ShatteredWings]

Well why do you hate it?

It's rather dificult to deal with being in one body, if everything in your brain is saying that it wants to be the other way...

[jennesac]

im a girl, and i honestly hate the drama and hormones... it sucks caring so much.. blah!

[kipper]

no offense girls but being a women sucks a LOOOT men have it a lot easier

[ShatteredWings]

no offense girls but being a women sucks a LOOOT men have it a lot easier
How do you know if you haven't been a girl?
(yes, I'm assuming that you're not a FtM, but with that attitude I doubt it)
That's really offensive, actually.

Look. The OP obviously doesn't think that being a woman is wrong, or sucks, or that it's harder.

If you were living your life in the wrong body, forced into a role that doesn't fit your brain, and being told that you must be this way, it's going to have an effect on you.

http://pub11.bravenet.com/faq/show.php?usernum=940797647&catid=7133 (link off website http://www.lauras-playground.com )
#6. TS suicide rates. Go look at that. Thirty One to FIFTY percent.
Because of the self hate, and being told to be someone you're not by society.


On a personal note, I'm VERY disgusted at the level of hate and ignorance being posted in this thread. There's absolutly nothing wrong with wanting to live as the person you are. LGBT includes transgendered (which includes transsexual, among others), and I think we really should ALL accept each other for who we are, as humans, not men or women (which now we're getting into gender binary being restrictive, but that's not what this thread's about)


Oh, and she doesn't "want to be a girl". She IS a girl, in a boys body... I think that needs to be made clear.
Gender isn't a choice.

[Obscene Eyedeas]

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Originally Posted by Ocean Challenger
You don't want to be a girl, Girls go through so much. Thats why they deserve more respect.

yes we do

trust me. you don't want to be a girl. We go through way more than guys can imagine, only if our a girl you could understand

feel lucky your a guy


They are ryt it suks with all the shit we go tru XD
Be happy ur a guy! lol

If u wanna chat mre bout it on a one to one level pm me

[MysticalBurrito]

Yeah right, being a girl is alot of work. You'd probably break.
Mhm. Later in life we have to give birth to a water melon.

You don't want to be a girl, Girls go through so much. Thats why they deserve more respect.
You have a lot of my respect. [If you're not being sarcastic it's hard to tell over the internet. >.>]

[Dead_User]

why why why? i hate being a man but i like girls i wana be lesbian girl

What are the disadvantages of you being a male? Do you REALLY want bleen out an egg your body disposes of every month?? (I've been watching TOO many videos in my biology class...><)

[thrust of trust]

dude seriously just be yourself.

[2D]

Lulz. You better start saving.

[ShatteredWings]

feel lucky your a guy
...
Be happy ur a guy! lol
wtf?
Maybe she hates being male?
Just a thought
What are the disadvantages of you being a male? Do you REALLY want bleen out an egg your body disposes of every month?? (I've been watching TOO many videos in my biology class...><)
I've said it already.

SEX REASSIGNMENT SURGERY (SRS) DOES NOT GIVE A WOMAN A WORKING UTERUS.
We do NOT have the technology or anything to create working sex organs.
FtMs have it worse, constructing a penis (that, ahem, works...) is nearly impossible at the moment, while constructing a vagina (obviouslly, closed..) is done...I did recently read an article on turning a rabbits ovaries into testicles. We're on the way, but I don't see sex organ surgery for humans any time soon.

Lulz. You better start saving.
....You could have said that nicer.
But yeah, you're gonna have a hard time getting insurance to cover that. It's seen as "elective", because people are homophobic, transphobic, bigots.

[drpepper21]

i think that some people are being real bigots here. yall are cracking jokes and she is probably very discouraged at the moment. (assuming she wants to re-asign her gender).
if you want to get rid of your male-persona consider switching schools to start new, and follow your heart.

flying[star] apears to be the only person in this thread with a little bit of humility.

if you need to talk hun, go ahead and PM me.