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Stewart
December 6th, 2009, 05:30 PM
I thought I was bi...I was sure I was bi...then, I got a girlfriend... I don't know why I said yes to her...I just wanted to prove to myself I wasn't gay I guess.

I thought I liked her a lot, now...nothing...I feel just as we're buddies.

It's been this way 3 other times! I think I like the girl, we go out, and then nothing...

I don't want to kiss girls anymore. I don't want a wife. I feel I wouldn't be happy with a woman, only a man.

I don't want to be gay. I want to be normal.

I'm still sexually attracted to both sexes, but I don't want a relationship with a girl, only a guy.

Am I gay?

nick
December 6th, 2009, 05:49 PM
Stewart, why rush into a decision. You sound kinda gay atm, but also still sexually attracted to girls. Why not keep your options open ? You dont strike me as the kinda of guy to be playing around, cheating on people, so if you have a relationship enjoy it to the full, then see where the next one takes you.

Stewart
December 6th, 2009, 05:53 PM
Alright, that sounds good. Thanks Nick

XxHaViiK
December 6th, 2009, 06:58 PM
Just give yourself some time, there's not really any need to rush into decisions otherwise you might freak yourself out more then necessary. Just wait and see what happens with yourself and try not to dwell on it too much.

cherry_boi
December 6th, 2009, 07:14 PM
being gay is as normal as being straight or bi is

ktkurbst0mp
December 6th, 2009, 08:53 PM
yeah, I second Cherry.
Being gay is normal. Althought society tends to tell us otherwise. If you are gay, it will be hard to accept. It was for me, and a couple of gay friends that I have. But believe me, there is a ton of support out there for you.
And there is still a possibility you may not be. Your sexuality may still be developing.
But either way, I wish you luck. :)