My best friend is acting weird.

[sweetmisery]

Okay, just a few weeks ago I told my friend I was bi and she okay with that. I told her over the weekend, so when it was Monday, things where normal, we joked around, talked about what we usually talk about and then Tuesday came along and everything changed. She started giving me kisses on the cheeks (repeatedly), calling me "wifey", making some..really weird comments, and this comments come with these movements that are considered by guys to be "sexy." At first I thought nothing of it because...well yeah she's a playful person, but it's been about two weeks now and she's still doing it. At first I thought it was really funny and I'd shy away from her and I still do that now except I don't think it's funny because people are noticing and calling us "Freaks." Nothing is going on. She's my best friend and I love her like a sister.

I just need advice on how to confont her about it?

And yes, I've told her to stop what she's doing once or twice and she's completely ignored my requests and keeps giving me kisses. What should I do?

[Darkness]

Em, some people can't deal with others changing, a chap I was close to told me to "Fuck off you spazzy emo" every time we met because I self harm. We stop talking for a week and he basically comes and talk again. I think what might work for you is to tell her to stop or bugger off if she stops she stops, if not stop talking to her and let her get used to it.

[sweetmisery]

Well, I tried that today. I told her to stop but that only caused her to hug me, peck me on the cheek (basically anything to get my attention on her again), so it isn't that easy because as I said, she's my best friend and we tell each other everything. But I definitely will try for the "stop talking to her and let her get used to it. " in a mild sort of way. Thank you :]

[galen]

Hi Raciee,

Would you be able to have a heart-to-heart talk with her in private with no one around?

Tell her exactly how you're feeling about all these and these have been bothering you.

Tell her that you do not mean to offend her in any way but you're feeling uncomfortable about all these actions and behaviors from her.

Let her know that you're telling her because you care about your relationship with her and you do not want to lose a best friend.

Tell her that you hope things can go back to normal as before.

Be truthful to your feelings.

Hope things would be fine for you.