WTF... man I hate hormones!!!!

[Don3]

I think about what my sexuality I 24/7 now and I feel like I lost the real me and now I’m enveloped in all this crap....I stooped likening both genders now and I feel like I have myself from the world/my life....who has experienced this before ???? Well if not all of it what about the loss of interest in both genders due to not knowing their sexuality??? If so what did you do and what did you turn out to be???

[XxHaViiK]

For a while, I was swinging back and fourth between my ideas about preference. Then I stayed at liking both genders and stuck there. I'm bi now, but it took me a really long time to accept the fact that I'd be different in yet another category of life. It's hard, but the phase should pass.

[Dreaming Cannibal]

lol this happened to me when I was in grade 11 or 12, I turned "asexual" for like a month since i stopped liking anybody because they where either man or woman…

just relax and stop thinking about it. Someone will come around and make an impression on you either with their looks or personality

[thepieman]

Well over a while I wasn't sure. I thought I was straight, gay, bi, gay, straight, bi, straight, gay - until realising and becoming comfortable with being bi. These things take a while, and you're only 13 so you've got plenty of this to come. Just wait until you are comfortable with who you are to decide.

[Don3]

and most of it is in my head for example this whole am i gay thing started from a simple thought that snowballed in to the problem i have today..... everyone says it's just hormones but how do i know for sure??? >=(

[Don3]

This is all my opinion. I think hormones truly suck. Raging hormones, to me, causes stress. It's on my mind a lot, when I could be chillin and having a good time. Maybe it's just me, but I want to figure out my sexuality and move on with life. It's like, I'll decide my sexuality, but more thoughts pour into my head. All my life, I've been pretty damn bright. For this to happen, it just messes up everything I've worked on. It's hard - not easy - and most of the things in my life, have been easy for the most part. When I don't think and have fun, I act like myself, I act gnarly - fun, and that's why I think I'm over - analyzing everything. I don't know how to 'stop' doing that, and I would think the majority of people today would want to figure it out and move on, you know?
This is what i feel like.

[daveywavey]

Give it time bud. You have a long while yet to find yourself. Just enjoy life and don't dwell on things. It will come to you I promise :)

[Don3]

has anyone else gone through this beside's the first three posts? if so please tell me what helped you figure out your sexuality and what you are now.... i think i like a girl could i be be just curious (i think i'm sexually and emotionally attracted to girls?

[Aspiringanonymous]

I experienced a similar period of confusion, not particularly pertaining to interest or lack of in either gender, but regarding sexual identity and labels in general. Honestly, I am no less confused now than I was in the past, but at one point it occurred to me that over-amplifying this issue was doing unexpected damage to my mind. So I stopped thinking about it, and returned to approaching the whole concept of sexuality as a non-issue.

I choose to identify as asexual, for it is the one that makes most sense to me at this time. That could change in the future, if new insights are found which suggest with adequate clarity a different direction.

[Schizothemia]

I know exactly where you are coming from. Around your age I was struggling with my sexuality, and had no clue what was going on.

I always was attracted to guys, and essentially forced myself into being attracted to girls. But over time, I stopped caring what others though about the issue, and decided to go with what felt right.

Stop letting society's views interrupt what should be coming natural. It seems like alot of what you are worried about (like most people) is how society is going to view you after you make your "decision." Let me tell you right now, there is no true decision, and we as a society need to stop labeling love.

Sure, I do consider myself gay, because its the fitting term to how I feel because thus far in my life I haven't been attracted to women, and it seems like that'll continue. I don't know if it will change, but if it does, no big deal, it's not like I'd be breaking some gay code.

Basically what I'm saying is be attracted to who you are attracted to, don't let anyone interfere with that. If you like a boy, so be it, if you like a girl, so what. You like and are attracted to who you are, and there's no way you should try and force yourself into some sterilized category.