Is My Friend Gay/Bi?

[Pudd]

He openly talks about masturbation to me and slaps me and other friends on the butt playfully, but when he stays over at mine or vise versa hell come and lay on my bed and talk to me and when were lying on the floor, he sometimes comes ontop of me and pretends to hump me. But last night i think he saw some gay porn saved to my computer so i think he may be taking the mick? But he still did these things before he "saw" it. Any suggestions?

[XxHaViiK]

Well, he might just be a playful/horny person, or actually could be attracted to the same sex. Next time he does something sexual to you, (you should be alone to avoid embarrassing him in front of other people), ask him if he's bi/gay.

[obiwan94]

Just ask him and let him know that if he is, you're cool with it, but that you're not interested in that kind of stuff. If he's a good friend then he should respect your wishes and lay off and hopefully be honest with you.

[M-Guy]

Just ask him does he have any urges to be with another guy at all.... and I'm sure it'll go from there man!

I'm a little confused.... do u wanna go there with him or not??

[Pudd]

Just ask him does he have any urges to be with another guy at all.... and I'm sure it'll go from there man!

I'm a little confused.... do u wanna go there with him or not??

Im not sure. The community is a bit too small here and i dont think it would be a wise idea. but i think apart from that i might do. Friends with benefits?

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Giles]

Get him alone somewhere and ask him.
That's the simplest way.

[The Joker]

Not all LGBT people think about sex 24/7, so please don't group us with him.

I know I wouldn't want to do that, and I'm bi.

He's probably curious.

[Pudd]

Not all LGBT people think about sex 24/7, so please don't group us with him.

I know I wouldn't want to do that, and I'm bi.

He's probably curious.

i wasnt im Bi its just that he does it to boys lol

[Fourth Dimension]

i think he may be taking the mick?what do u mean by this im confused ive never heard that term

[Skeletal-Chic]

what do u mean by this im confused ive never heard that term

Basically it means to make fun off or to joke about. It's a british thing :P

But to the OP: I would just ask him scincerley and in a non jokey way about his sexuality either when you two are alone or if he does it again. But if you ask him make sure you two are alone so he isn't majorlly embarrassed!
Also, clearly tell him about whether you are cool with him doing these things or not and whether - if he asks - you want to take it further

[Billy15]

just ask is good advice but if you live where i do that is a very sacry thing to do because if he isn't it could be very bad and get all over town. but if he already seen gay porn on your computer he probably already knows that your into that so if i was you i think i would let him make the moves and maybe just not show any resistance lol because thats safer to me

[Pudd]

just ask is good advice but if you live where i do that is a very sacry thing to do because if he isn't it could be very bad and get all over town. but if he already seen gay porn on your computer he probably already knows that your into that so if i was you i think i would let him make the moves and maybe just not show any resistance lol because thats safer to me

I dont know for sure if he saw it, but he was in the folder with it in and i quickly snatched the computer off him. But he did look at me funny, but that couldve been because of how fast i snatched the computer off him... He WAS in that folder for a notable amount of time

[Rutherford The Brave]

What does it matter whether or not he is gay, its should be none of your concern.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Not all LGBT people think about sex 24/7, so please don't group us with him.

I know I wouldn't want to do that, and I'm bi.

He's probably curious.

Yeah. Same here. Sorry this thread has also been dead for 2 1/2 years... :(

[Lovesbeingnaked]

Sounds like he's just playing around. A lot of straight guys do that. Nothing really screams "Gay"

[Pudd]

What does it matter whether or not he is gay, its should be none of your concern.

Yeah. Same here. Sorry this thread has also been dead for 2 1/2 years... :(

Wow, this is old!

It doesn't matter at all, and I'm not being negative about it. I myself, am pansexual and currently have a boyfriend. At the time, I was more curios as to whether he was so I had a friend (in real life, as I said it's a small community which is very religious) to talk to about how I felt, and in return listen to how he felt.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Well, he might just be a playful/horny person, or actually could be attracted to the same sex. Next time he does something sexual to you, (you should be alone to avoid embarrassing him in front of other people), ask him if he's bi/gay.

Next time he does sumtnin like that ask if he's bi/gay

[Pudd]

Next time he does sumtnin like that ask if he's bi/gay

Well it's been 2.5 years. He's either not, or still in the closet ;)

[DerBear]

Please don't bump old threads, this was from 2009 :locked: