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Hezzy
December 5th, 2009, 07:28 PM
yeah so i am male and i kindoff like this boy in my class. and i am unsure if he will like me or even likes me. the thing is i usaully never thought of what sexuallity i could of been untill a while ago when i was sure i was straightish. but i started to develope feelings for him.

the thing is i tryed to tell him at a sleepover. there was him and a few other friends at it. i waited untill the others went asleep and i tryed to tell him that i liked him and would like to well erm suck him sometime. to which he didnt say much and i just left it.

unfortunately one of my other friends herd of our conversation and he told a friend that i was gay and he told everyone in school i was gay. i managed to avoid this disaster and it was all ok again.

the thing is i would like to try again but i am affraid it might leak again that i am gay and this time people might believe it.

i need some help and advice and also if somone could help my sexuality?

Art_dude
December 5th, 2009, 11:06 PM
The first question you need to ask yourself is, "am I gay?" That's something that involves some soul searching. We can't help you with that: you need to find that out yourself.
The first mistake you made was following up, "I like you" with, "I want to suck your dick sometime." If you didn't come across so strong, maybe he would've initiated a conversation instead of brushing you off. Should you pursue him again? No, you shouldn't. There's a reason he didn't say much the first time. Why open up a bad can of worms again anyway, if it's at the expense of a bad rumor?