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goldbiospark
December 4th, 2009, 09:54 PM
Ok here's what i don't get,

-She wants to kiss me
-She wants to Make out with me
-We talk all the time..

And she tells all her friends and me that she wants to stay single right now because of previous bf's ... What should i do??
JustNcross
December 4th, 2009, 10:01 PM
not sure, ive never had a GF that acted in that particular order.

you should ask her.
parkpark
December 4th, 2009, 10:01 PM
dump her before she dumps you lol
guy1234
December 4th, 2009, 11:47 PM
wow you two were helpful.....

You have to respect her wishes and take them at face value. Dont look for a hidden meaning. If she says she wants to stay single, let her and do not make advances. However, let her know if and when she comes on to you that she needs to stop if she wants to keep to her word and that you are not to be used.
Kaleidoscope Eyes
December 5th, 2009, 12:18 AM
P101 :arrow: Relationships & Dating
JasonClark
December 5th, 2009, 02:40 AM
bffl? people can have physical and sexual attractions, but still have emotional drawbacks that you should respect. just play it out and see if she changes her outlook.
Misty.
December 6th, 2009, 01:54 PM
umm...i dont relay like the idea of making out with some1 who doesnt want a commitment..(personally)

n if in case u r up for the fun(mostly guys are) and u sure u wont end up getting emotional about the stuff..go with the flow...but...make sure she starts it..and not u..(u never know she might start yelling at u 1 fine day saying u forced her or something)

and in case u think u might end up feeling for her ..n getting emotional..first clear these matters that u wont make out etc. with a casual frnd... :)

i hope this helps :)
Art_dude
December 10th, 2009, 10:45 PM
What do you not get about that: sounds like she wants to hook up with no strings attached. She clearly doesn't want a relationship. If you want a committed relationship, you're not gonna get it from her. If you really hate hooking up (jeez what a pain lol) than break it off with her.
2D
December 11th, 2009, 12:29 PM
She wants a hook up buddy. Every guy I've ever met would be all over that in a second. What's not to understand?
IAMWILL
December 11th, 2009, 05:20 PM
Look.
She wants to make out with you, then have no one care.
She's trying to be hassle-free which will NEVER happen in relationships.
She doesn't deserve you.
Leave her alone, let her come to reason, or let her end up with someone who also doesn't care.
Just get away from the situation.