OK time to let loose

[cobblers1]

Im 16... im confused.

I dont know what to do, if you new me, you know that i am really confident lad who most people get along with. I am in love with football and its a major part of my life. I where normal clothes such as jeans shirts tops jogging bottoms etc etc etc!

Yet i think i may be different. STRAIGHT/GAY/BI?

Help me pleaseeeeeee! lol

Im not that bothered really, but it would be nice to know so that I can feel secure about myself in different situations. I get asked out by girls but feel :S I have feelings towards girls and masturbate over girls. Then i do the same to boys...! I like boys more. I find them more attractive, but only certain parts.

Is this a phase? Am i BI? the other night i snogged a girl i dont know how many times and it went a lil bit further. I felt normal. anyone else experienced this?

hope you can help

J

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

[Request Move To Puberty]
Well... but if you prefer boys more than girls then techinically your bi... but in my opinion... id say your more curious...

[mklightning1]

well i dont what to say but i do knwo what your saying and how your feeling, as i ave had many relationships with girls that have gon well and i been very much in love and attracted to um

but lately i have been attracted to the same sex i dont know if this is cos of the bad relationships i have had with girls and its just forcing me that way, or if i am gay or bi and only just started to come out i onestly dont know and i dont know what to do

i would love to say im not gay or bi in fact thats what i wont but i cant help these feelings is this just a phase or is this reality unfolding :mad:


p.s sorry about the spelling lol

[Confused Posh Boy]

I quiet admire the fact that you are prepared to accept what you are that erns you respect in my book. you need to know what it is though, which parts of the body on either sex do you like.

Go for the one you can talk to for ages, the one whoes eyes you get lost in and whoes face you just want to kiss and then you must think which ''intimate'' parts do i like the best if you prefer penis to vagina then that doesnt automaticaly mean your gay. I think legs are a key part of the body, consider what you think on both sexs' legs o and ofcorse the arse i think that is when i found out i wasnt Gay but then again i think that is because i have fallen madly in love with a girl who is mentaly and physical beautiful who loves me back.

Good Luck think bout those things then it might help

[Bill Cosby]

Just go with the flow and experiment more. Soon you will find out what you like and what you don't like, so you can base you actions around that.

[R&b_Boy]

Just go with the flow and experiment more. Soon you will find out what you like and what you don't like, so you can base you actions around that.


yeah ur still goin thru puberty ..like I told other guys on here don't judge ur self until after puberty, k.. u'll be alright guy

[Aηdy]

Your still only 16, your most probally just ovfer half-way through puberty, still got hormones going crazy, you can only really tell for real when your through puberty.. your probally could be just curious, but you vould be bi/gay, theres no telling yet really